China Romance
General Discussion and Useful Links => The Campfire => Topic started by: Jimmy on October 23, 2009, 12:41:26 am
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Well Li and I have been on and off so many times that this time I felt glad for it to be off. So thanks guys for all the help and encouragement over the past year. I have decided to leave it off with her and have ended my search.
She got a little psyco on me last night again and gave me an ultimatum again and I made my choice. She again tried to makeup this morning as she always does and I cant do it. Hey I did it with her for almost a year and spent many hours and dollars. Don't get me wrong I'm not happy about it, I just not all torn up like I would have been a month ago.
I'm 53 years old and have 4 young children to raise 7,10,12 and 15 and being alone with them I should continue to stay very busy. And if a nice lady were to come my way I would not run her off,but I am tired of looking.
I have a trip to China planned for next year maybe I will move it from January to the spring when its not so cold and go anyway.
The way you guys that have been talk about it, sounds like a great vacation anyway.
Anyway not looking for advice and I know I'm a pain in the ass most of the time but every disfunctional family needs one right.
Just lettin you all know where I'm at with things. I know a couple of you like me ok.
Think I'll go Fishin
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Jim , sorry this is how things went with Li ... but who needs all this ON and OFF at a start of a relationship anyway ? It's bad enough during . It will take a special Lady for you and your four young Children , by any means . She is somewhere , please don't stop looking ... don't your Children need a Mother again to Love them as they grow up ?
Second , yes ... you should go to visit China anyway , you wont be sorry .
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Arnold, a saying says that most of time, when man doesn't look for love, love comes to him naturally :)
So. All we can hope and wish to you, Jimmy, is that you can find your love, whatever it would be tomorrow, in a street near your home, maybe for Christmas (whiile buying presents for your children ^^) or later.
But anyway, the brotherhood's still here for you. If you need anything, you know where to knock ;)