China Romance
General Discussion and Useful Links => The Campfire => Topic started by: Paul Todd on December 29, 2009, 09:29:42 pm
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Translated comments made by Chinese women complaining about their husbands or boyfriends
http://www.chinasmack.com/secrets/chinese-wives-complaints-about-husbands-1/
http://www.chinasmack.com/secrets/chinese-wives-complaints-about-husbands-2/
“When I am away on business, he simply puts his socks in water and will not wash them for the entire week until I return and he says to me that he changed the water everyday!”
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some interesting comments here
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Ever since he could no longer play WoW
he began constantly downloading single-player games.
Unwilling to wash dishes.
Always forgets to get a towel when bathing.
Sometimes also petty/narrow-minded. -v-
That sounds like my ex. The biggest reason I am divorced was she quit grad school to play wow all day (4-5PM to 8-9AM). After 18 months of me trying to get her to quit and do something with her life (school or job) I gave up. During the 18 months I did everything at home (cooking, cleaning, dishes, etc) and she refuses to go outside (or even shower). She also refused to go to a doctor to get some help.
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That sounds like my ex. The biggest reason I am divorced was she quit grad school to play wow all day (4-5PM to 8-9AM). After 18 months of me trying to get her to quit and do something with her life (school or job) I gave up. During the 18 months I did everything at home (cooking, cleaning, dishes, etc) and she refuses to go outside (or even shower). She also refused to go to a doctor to get some help.
Regnis..
I know I am probably the only person in the whole world that does'nt know....:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:....but what is WOW !!!!!
David
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My husband is also very shameless. He is obsessed with cleanliness, bathes twice a day, and bathes extremely slowly. I really do not understand what a man with not that much hair has to wash inside!
Metrosexual?
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Your not the only one David - I do not know what the WOW is in play.
I have often heard it said though, usually when I have undressed and they look at me and say 'WOW You must be joking' !!!!!!:huh:
Willy
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WoW stands for World of Warcraft. It's an alternate reality game (you create a person in another universe and wander around in it, interacting with others, completing tasks, etc.)
Never got into it, especially considering you have to pay a monthly fee to keep playing...talk about drugs...
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The complaints sound like the ones from home, here in Australia. They seem so ordinary, and seem so easy to resolve, with just a little effort from each side.
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yes i agree danny
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Has anyone else seen the South Park episode where they rip on world of warcraft? when u see the guy's who play this game, then the episode is pretty true to life....:icon_cheesygrin: Sorry if any bro's play it.....:icon_cheesygrin:
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havent seen that one yet but its hard to get shows in china
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wilsbrough
My ex wife did heavily (14-16 hours a day) for almost a year and half. During the latter periods she would go weeks without showering since she never left the apartment. Trust me, not showering for a few weeks smells really bad.
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Has anyone else seen the South Park episode where they rip on world of warcraft?
Yes...
I see what you mean?
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World of Warcraft is more called a MMOPRG (Massive Multilayer Role Playing Game). People create an character for themselves (my ex played a undead female warlock) in the game and join a virtual world with thousands of people playing in real time. There hundreds of of servers and in each one has thousands if not tens of thousands playing in real time. They interact via chat and do things together from completing quests, farming (doing repetitive things for gold or reputation in game), raids (think 10 or 25 people in the game doing the same thing week after week to kill big monster that give you better gear). They join guilds online (which are like clans I guess) that do these raids and other stuff together. Some of guilds have something called Ventrillo which they can talk (voice) with each other.
Some of it is ridiculous. For example my ex wanted this mount (which is a flying horse type deal) and it cost like 5000G or something. For two weeks she would go up and down this ramp by this place called the Black Temple and kill these guys and loot the bodies. Literally probably 200-250 hours just going up and down this ramp killing these things for a mount.
You pay $14US a month to play it here. So she was paying to do this.
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I think these people that play these nonsense games, and pay for the priviledge, are just ''Sad Buggers'' and need to get a life.... Just got to be something missing up in there in the grey matter department!!!
David....
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The complaints sound like the ones from home, here in Australia. They seem so ordinary, and seem so easy to resolve, with just a little effort from each side.
Yes Danny
Easy enough to rectify the problems being experienced by Chinese Women ref. their husbands....provided that both live in a society that at least values and validates a woman's position and opinion within a marriage partnership.
In the typical Patriarchal society that most Chinese women live in within their marriages, these issues are deep-set and culturally ingrained....
I dont think Chinese men (and I realise this is probably a dangerous generalisation) have the mental capacity to understand that their behaviour is anything but normal !!!
Why do you think that Chinese women have this attraction to Western Men...........because we treat them like honoured partners in the marriage.
And thats how it should be :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
David
I think these people that play these nonsense games, and pay for the priviledge, are just ''Sad Buggers'' and need to get a life.... Just got to be something missing up in there in the grey matter department!!!
David....
Dave
I reckon it is for the same reason that the stupid bast###s get involved in heroin and all such Killers...because they cant deal with the reality of their lives, and cant get off their ass to change it...so dive into an artificial world where all your problems disappear......temporarily !!!!
Sooner or later...reality prevails, and....CRASH !!!
David
Thanks for the explanation Regnis........
It frys my brain to realise that so many people need to get obsessed by such stuff as a way to avoid reality in their own life....very sad.
Sorry Willy....you and I were the only people on the Planet who didnt know about WOW...now we do !!!...........must be the end of innocence for us........ :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
For all the ladies who scream "WOW" at the disrobed Willy, what do they really mean ????..."What a Whopper"...or "What a Weanie".....:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
David
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David E,
Ain't that the truth!!! ....It's a Sad Truth, but very true just the same!!
David....
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I didn't know what WOW was until I saw it here. You just have to put down the game and forget it. Time to get a life.
Wow to Willy means, where is it? do I pull this string to find it...hahaha
And washing your socks once a week, phew...bet they walk by themselves.
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That Guy obviously has not been a student living away from home, as we all know after a week, you turn them inside out and get at least another weeks wear out of them......This rule can also be applied to underpants as well....:icon_cheesygrin:
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I didn't know what WOW was until I saw it here. You just have to put down the game and forget it. Time to get a life..
Its not as easy as you think. Is like drugs heroin or cocaine, its addictive just like it. I spend 14 months of my marriage trying to get my ex to stop playing and do something else (work, go to school, life).
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RegnisTheGreat,
Any idea what she's like now ?? I mean, do you know if she is still playing this WOW game 24/7, and if so, ....who's paying for her subscription now ??? .....YOU still??
David
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David:
I haven't talked to her since she moved out and went to live with her parents. I dealt with everything through my lawyer. So I can't stay if she still plays or not. But right now I am still paying (not the montly fee). I got slapped with $450CAD/month support x 2 years. I got another 3 more payment to go.
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RegnisTheGreat,
So your still paying for her WoW Addiction for another 3 months!! Your lucky mate, in UK you would be paying until she remarried...haha!!! Also Lucky there are no Children involved (i'm assuming) or you'd be really in the soup in monetary terms that is .....
David.....
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The judge actually allowed computer payments to her....:huh: what have the courts gone to...:s
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the courts are for the women and not for us especially in the usa
we just give the money and they spend on whatever they want
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the courts are for the women and not for us especially in the usa
we just give the money and they spend on whatever they want
Couldn't have said it any better. Went to court over the child support to many times and each time I just couldn't believe how they always made me the bad guy. Even though it was her that was the bad apple. Last time I was there I told the female arbitrator (judge like) off. Told her to go F' herself and walked out. I really believe she hated men?
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she probably did Vince (hate men ) blame us for all her troubles
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butch.....lifts weights and takes kung-fu and carries a club and can't wait for a mugger....loves other women....
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thats a good one rocky forgot smokes cigars
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No mate I did not know what wow meant either.
:huh:L