China Romance
General Discussion and Useful Links => Newbies Corner => Topic started by: Oiler1 on January 26, 2010, 03:23:04 pm
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Have you ever noticed that often the 1st or second letters from Chnlove women are so very general that they are written for anyone? You just have to substitute the man's name and that is all. The reply to a cupid or 1st letter is often generic as though to generate more income for the agency.
Sometimes, the woman would refer to specific things in your profile but often they do not and ask questions that have already been answered in the profile.
Another pet peeve is they never list the woman's children details. They just have a yes or no to the children category. No age or gender or number of children. I complained about it many times to no avail.
Although Cnhlove is for real, I question some of their business practices.
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I'm off ChinaLove! Its all about CLL for me!
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Me too, i met my girl thru Chineselove links too....:icon_cheesygrin:
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i also met my wife on CLL
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i know 8 guys that had success with cll
now dia is quite humorous if you want to
entertain yourself for free
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Yeah I haven't even visited an agency yet. Part of it is work, but I also had/have two women to meet from CLL. I will be meeting the other one when I return to Nanning in a few days.
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sorry but i just think china love is a joke with the way
they do business. i still think they make more from the
ladies not getting married and when one does they get
a bonus. some people have had a little luck there but i
would think the percentage is small
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Every once in a while you see a stunner and of course within 24 hours of a new posting you cannot send a cupid note. Does anyone find that kind of suspicious? Are there really millions of guys ready to send cupids the moment a stunner appears? I rather doubt it. What exactly is their limit for a woman to receive cupids 2 or 3 ?
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It's an interesting journey, Chnlove. It introduces you to a whole lot of people (non-English speaking Chinese people) that you wouldn't ever have the chance to meet otherwise. If you can find an honest and competent translator and agency, I could imagine that it would be the way to go. But after all this time, and amongst all the clever people we have at this forum, it's hard to know who you can trust. My two cents on the matter is that with the all the women in the world, I would always aim for someone who at the very beginning at least speaks fair English and so you are able communicate directly from the beginning. A woman who speaks at least some English has put serious effort into communicating with a foreigner (whether for work or a possible relationship) and is much more likely to want to be ready to make a move to another country.
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It's an interesting journey, Chnlove. It introduces you to a whole lot of people (non-English speaking Chinese people) that you wouldn't ever have the chance to meet otherwise. If you can find an honest and competent translator and agency, I could imagine that it would be the way to go. But after all this time, and amongst all the clever people we have at this forum, it's hard to know who you can trust. My two cents on the matter is that with the all the women in the world, I would always aim for someone who at the very beginning at least speaks fair English and so you are able communicate directly from the beginning. A woman who speaks at least some English has put serious effort into communicating with a foreigner (whether for work or a possible relationship) and is much more likely to want to be ready to make a move to another country.
Good point except it is very hard to find one that speaks good English and is the right package.
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Every once in a while you see a stunner and of course within 24 hours of a new posting you cannot send a cupid note. Does anyone find that kind of suspicious? Are there really millions of guys ready to send cupids the moment a stunner appears? I rather doubt it. What exactly is their limit for a woman to receive cupids 2 or 3 ?
Haha, they figured out that if you're despo enuff to reach her you will even bypass the customary cupid note & write her an EMF straightaway. It's all about milking the poor saps/sops. If she's so hot, why not let her get 1000 cupids & reply the top 10? Noooooo they want 10 cupids & 990 EMFs.
It's an interesting journey, Chnlove. It introduces you to a whole lot of people (non-English speaking Chinese people) that you wouldn't ever have the chance to meet otherwise. If you can find an honest and competent translator and agency, I could imagine that it would be the way to go. But after all this time, and amongst all the clever people we have at this forum, it's hard to know who you can trust. My two cents on the matter is that with the all the women in the world, I would always aim for someone who at the very beginning at least speaks fair English and so you are able communicate directly from the beginning. A woman who speaks at least some English has put serious effort into communicating with a foreigner (whether for work or a possible relationship) and is much more likely to want to be ready to make a move to another country.
Good point except it is very hard to find one that speaks good English and is the right package.
... one that speaks good English and is the right package.
AND wants to give you her number right away AND meet you to make passionate love/get married. Most likely she is gonna go for the 30-something Ashton Kutcher lookalike who also happens to have a yacht in the Bahamas. Just like Zhang ziyi & that billionaire Vivi....
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I would disagree with what you said 007 the vast majority of the
ladies who can speak english and or are learning are putting forth
the effort to meet a man who will marry them and respect them as
their wife. if they are doing this then they are working and are
independant and for the most part are lookinng for a good man who will
love and respect them. most of your women who want the big payday
are from the poorer rural areas who want to get out because they have
nothing. just my observation from living here these years and seeing and
hearing from my own eyes and ears. celebrities tend to have a different circle
to run in hence is why they marry rich people and not a poorer schmuck like me
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Ted,
Your right in the most part, in what your saying here. It amazes me sometimes the amount of hear-say, or just pure closed minds that influence some of the posts about the everyday Chinese ladies in China. It's as if they see some sort of scam around every corner and/or in everything they may say or do. Makes you wonder sometimes, if they are really that serious about finding a Chinese wife....
David.....
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i agree david in reality most chinese women are honest and sincere
not looking to scam i see it all the time here in china they just want
a man to love and respect them
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Ted and David.For what it's worth.I'm in agreement with both of you.You guys are making good solid points.
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thanks Maxx wisdom comes with age hahaha at least in my case:icon_cheesygrin:
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Odusseus007
I cant quite make up my mind whether or not you are serious or are just having fun with us here....in both of the threads you have posted in.
This Forum represents a bunch of normal guys who have decided to help each other with advice and assistance to find our life partner in China.
I am sure that those of us with wives, fiances, girlfriends and such would consider "smokin' hot" as about the last thing we would look for. What happened to character, honesty, honour, intelligence and decency ???
Neither do many of us here have your "God Like" good looks, or charisma or could be considered to "excel at voice chat". As for your "personality and unique characteristics" truly we are in the presence of greatness......
CHNLove must be so grateful to you that you are keeping your options open with them in case you find "something to hot to resist"
Is that all you are concerned about..."being hot"......I have absolutely no idea what this means, and frankly it is of little interest.
If you want us to publicly applaud your unbelievable skills with women, then it wont come from me !!
I am surprised that you need to bother with Chinese Love Agencies, I would imagine that Supermodels are falling at your feet in droves.
Look mate, we are a bunch of ordinary guys as I said before, we all want something good, lasting and sincere to come out of our search in China and it would help a lot if you posted something that helped everybody get just that a little easier. I for one, dont just want to hear how good you are...just post something constructive, or just listen to some normal guys going about normal business to find their Lady.
I am sure that the vast majority of the Bros here have a great regard and admiration for those parts of Chinese Culture that typify the Ladies we would like to find. We have all had enough of mindless, shallow "so-called Hot" women in our own history to avoid them like the plague in China.
Dont trivialise the wonderful adventure that many of us are living in the search for our life partner.
David E
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David E-- well said i thought the same about his posts but just didnt
say it. he sounds a little like he should date himself because
of the fact that he is so good. maybe he works for one of the
agencies but it does say he is from singapore? do they have an
agency there? he reminds me of 2 previous other guys that
thought they were so good but at least they posted some
informative stuff at times
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I have to agree with Dave E too. Smokin Hot? I wonder if your kidding yourself? Any time, not only on Chnlove I was trying to get hooked up, smokin hot was not the top of the list. I will tell you though, I've had smokin hot they're to much work anyway. Just because they catch your eye in that category doesn't mean it's going to work out. Besides, your going by a photo? Setting yourself up for disappointment.
Here's alittle story. Back in the club days my friends and I went to a local club, my first time there. My friends start pointing out this gorgeous girl dancing. I said, Oh I know her. Her younger sister was just as good looking. They replied with the your full of it. As soon as she saw me she came straight to me and we talked a while, and my friends stood there with their jaws on the ground. I did know her, well. Fast forward, I saw her recent (couple of years ago). She's not that hot anymore.
Point is I don't look for smokin hot to marry. It's not the looks it's the person inside. If the outside only matter to you? Your trying to fill some fantasy? It's not going to end well.
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Guy's my lady is 'Smoking Hot'...hehehe
But yeah I have to agree with David here, we all knew how good looking (and get better with age) the Chinese ladies are. But we came to find an honest wonderful lady for a wife, not a 'Smoking hot' hottie...
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the smokin hot ladies i went out with in my life was my hormones talking
because the elevator didnt always go upstairs with some of them and after
i would think how boring she was except for *** and yes it is what the rest
of the package is all about for a longterm relationship to develop. looking for
just smokin hot is your ego driving your search