China Romance
General Discussion and Useful Links => The Campfire => Topic started by: Scottish_Rob on February 09, 2010, 11:34:02 am
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haha guys I have some extrordinary news for you hahaha
While I was on chnlove I had also joined foriegnladies.com...
This afternoon when I came in I went to check my emails, as you do and I have letters from some letters fromladies in China...
The one that caught my eye was the last letter I recieved this morning, it started with "Hello my dear how are you...".
YOU will NOT believe me when I tell you it was from Kathy Wang.
For those that don't know the story you can read up on it...
I thought what the hell!!!!
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Damn man what were you thinking when you saw that letter?
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Where can we find the story Rob? My sister and my younger brother signed up on eharmony at one time. and yes, their system matched them up together. she just said EEEWWWWWW GROSS!!! :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
Dave C
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Where can we find the story Rob? My sister and my younger brother signed up on eharmony at one time. and yes, their system matched them up together. she just said EEEWWWWWW GROSS!!! :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
Dave C
Hi Dave
Look in Campfire
My story so far...
and anything with Kathy in the name
Letters to the brotherhood
etc etc
VERY LONG READS MATE
Damn man what were you thinking when you saw that letter?
Josh...YOU really don't want to know mate...I promise you....LOL
Lets just say it brought back a lot of hurt...NOT READ IT..... AND NOT GOING TOO I DON'T THINK
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I might have an idea, I think I would feel the same. Your a stronger man than I am. I would have read it.
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It's cold outside. Print it out and use it for firestarter....haha
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Rob, I wouldn't read it. She chose her path. I wouldn't be strong enough to not read it, but if I were you, I wouldn't.
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I'd read just to see if she knows who she sent it to? Other then that, I would choose a few words for her and put it to the shredder.
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Rob, I wouldn't read it. She chose her path. I wouldn't be strong enough to not read it, but if I were you, I wouldn't.
Rob, I think Neil would be happy to read it for you :icon_cheesygrin:
Or maybe the old man changed his mind?
If I were you, I would have informed him politely that I WAS, IN FACT, TALLER THAN HIS DAUGHTER.....
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when we both lie down in bed :angel::heart::icon_cheesygrin:
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Yeah, i am wondering too if she new it was you she was writting too....! Did you have a picture on your profile before she sent you this letter? I know from reading all your posts on the subject what happened, but i think if i was you i would be just too curious to know what she was saying to me, but that's me and i'm not you....:icon_cheesygrin:
Andy...
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Yeah I know each of you are right in what you are saying...
Yes Neil she chose her path, or was chosen for her?...:@ What I am scared about is if I read it and the 'S' word comes up, and the sob story comes out, then what will I do:s. Even though I am more than happy with who I have now. I did speak with her (albeit by mail) for almost a year:huh:
I will keep it for a week or two and see if I am strong enough to read it then...:huh:
Yes I had my picture up and almost identical profile as that on Chnlove
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Robert !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That part of your life is now history.....just one of the episodes in your journey.
It is now dead, buried and past, an experience to be filed away.
Why even consider opening old wounds......you could never trust what that woman said ever again.
Move on Mate..........you've got what you were looking for.......
David
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David YOUR RIGHT MATe....Just went in and read it...
Story is , it was the her dad, but after hearing about my time there from some source she regrets and wonders if???? She has asked me to call her.
so I deleted the letter after sending her a few stern words
Updated
"Dear Rob
What can I say but how sorry I am about what dreadful way I treated you. You know a million sorrys could not hide the hurt you must have felt, I to hurted so much. And tell you true, I still do, you brought very much sunshine to my heart. I could not be the daughter not support my dad, I hope you could understnd.
Rob I saw pictures of you when you were here in Qingdao, and I saw you with another lady one night on the promonade. She is very beautiful? I wanted with all my heart to come over and speak to you, but you looked so happy and did not want to undo that.
now my heart is hurted I am hoeful that you may have forgiven me, and I hope that I may still have a chance with you, will you do this for me? Rob I am so so so sorry about what happened. I am not speaking to anyone, and have not done so since we split. You are interned in my heart and always will be. My cell number is ************* Please call me, I do want so much for us to be together.
My dad was wrong, I was wrong, now I know this I pray that you will answer me. Even with happenings Rob I did and still do love you please, please forgive me. My heart has been broken since October please come and mend it. The rain has never stopped in my world, it has been a black time in my life.
I have spoken with my dad when i saw your picture of this other website and told him, if you will forgive me, we will be together. He NOW understands and is wanting to see me happy agaian.
Please call Rob
Love Kathy
xx"
I couldn't help but be impressed with what she was saying. And I am glad she did not come over to speak to me that night,
So I told her that "YES I was hurt", and if truth be told will be scarred for many years. I told her "No I won't be calling, I have met another lady, the one she saw me with". There were a few expletive thrown in for good measure, and I said that "When I go back to Qingdao, I hope I never see her face to face".."you made your bed, now lie in it" i said.
Bye
Rob (the one that got away)
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Glad to see you satisfied your, and everybodys elses, curiousity and read the letter. Glad you replied with some stern words for her. Now you can let it go and move on.
Dave C
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Hey rob, let it go bro, you already have a good one, why trade down? by the way, how stern were those stern words....were they 4-5's or 10's....haha :icon_cheesygrin:
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i would let it go Rob it was or is in the past now.with all the women in
the world there is no reason to resume with one who does you wrong
never have figured that one out?? but many do that and end up getting
even more hurt in the future. even if you didnt have Anne now i would still
keep moving on. she is not worth the effort.
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Rob,
Everyone has said it and you know the right thing to do. Move on. We are all behind you.
Shaun
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Yes I had my picture up and almost identical profile as that on Chnlove
Then when are you going to put up your non photo shop pics????? LOL:icon_cheesygrin:
How did Kathy recognise you on the promenade? Walking with Anne you must have been ten foot tall. Or did you have your name label tied to your jacket?LOL
Willy
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Yes I had my picture up and almost identical profile as that on Chnlove
Then when are you going to put up your non photo shop pics????? LOL:icon_cheesygrin:
How did Kathy recognise you on the promenade? Walking with Anne you must have been ten foot tall. Or did you have your name label tied to your jacket?LOL
Willy
Maybe he was wearing a kilt & the updraft sorta blew it like it did to Marilyn Monroe? :icon_cheesygrin:
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Rob, good for you In my opinion reading and replying was empowering. I am am sorry guys if I sound bitter but thats awesome she saw you with Anne. Serves her right.
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Maybe he was wearing a kilt & the updraft sorta blew it like it did to Marilyn Monroe? :icon_cheesygrin:
Then we would not have ever seen him back - he would still be serving the huge queue that soon built up in the path of that gust.:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin: Because as Anne says HE IS STRONG!!!
Willy
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Hello mate!
hehehehe...just read this thread and remembered this morning what you sent me on QQ!
I know the feelings that were running through you! The first Chinese lady I was interested in added me back on QQ, after I deleted her awhile back. I almost ignored it but I figured I would be nice and hear what she had to say! She was told by our mutual friend that I was married in Changsha and I could see the jealousy in her messages! Honestly it felt good!!! She is still single and I am happily married! Rob, this is called karma...we do the right things, they do the wrong things and see what happens? Like the guys say here let this rest! At the same time...don't be harsh, kill her with kindness! You will never have to live in regret like her! BUTT!!!!!!! you have found yourself a great woman that is giving you unconditional love(like me)! This is what everybody looks for and we have found those women, here in China! How does it feel to stand 200+ cm's??? & on top of the world??? Just remember: Who has the good heart! :icon_cheesygrin:
Biggie(Jim)
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thats what matters the most "the heart" if your looking for a smokin hot woman
then you will get smoked many of the times
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Hey Jim.
How come your profile says banned..?
Andy.
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Hey Jim.
How come your profile says banned..?
Andy.
Ha ha ha ha Wilsbrough HE wont be able to answer you...HE is BANNED....hahahahahaha
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That is a very good point Rob.....:icon_cheesygrin: Cheers for the text, i'm chatting with Li on msn at the mo. She quit her job today...:huh: Least she wont have an excuse to make me breakfast when she moves in now....:icon_cheesygrin:
So does anyone know the reason for the ban?
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When you get time send me your Yahoo address mate..
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Scottish_Rob,
But only for 24 hours....
David....
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Did not know for how long mate...lol Just thought it was funny with Wills asking Biggie....lol:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
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Andy,
did she quit her job or is it that she just has time off for the chinese new year.
many places just shut down for a week.
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Ted,
His girlfriend lives in the UK (London), as does he. So the Chinese New Year thing doesn't apply, London aint gonna shut down for Chinese New Year!!! ......YET!!...hahaha!!
David......
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oh i didnt know that i thought she was in china. thats a first for here
isnt it? the rest of us are talking to ladies or met ladies in china:icon_cheesygrin:
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Yes, she's Chinese born and bred, but she has lived here for about ten years. We've been together for about three months now, and become really close. So close in fact, she's gonna be moving in with me next weekend...:icon_cheesygrin:
Andy.
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Yes, she's Chinese born and bred, but she has lived here for about ten years. We've been together for about three months now, and become really close. So close in fact, she's gonna be moving in with me next weekend...:icon_cheesygrin:
Andy.
Congrats bro on the good news.
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You are interned in my heart and always will be. My cell number is *************
That part of the letter was supposed to sound dramatic, but it was also unintentionally punny :icon_cheesygrin: Lucky escape, Rob! :icon_cheesygrin: Some episode of Prison Break huh?
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You are interned in my heart and always will be. My cell number is *************
That part of the letter was supposed to sound dramatic, but it was also unintentionally punny :icon_cheesygrin: Lucky escape, Rob! :icon_cheesygrin: Some episode of Prison Break huh?
Hahaa I never saw that...lol:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
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Ted,
His girlfriend lives in the UK (London), as does he. So the Chinese New Year thing doesn't apply, London aint gonna shut down for Chinese New Year!!! ......YET!!...hahaha!!
David......
London does not shut for Christmas or New year not even Ramamadan so it is business as usual
Willy
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same in usa most cities keep open during the holidays
and stores try and get you for some money strange here in GZ
there closed and the streets are empty compared to normal
just 1/2 billion people out walking around
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Scotsman dropped kilt on live TV
1 hour 13 mins ago
Police are investigating after a Scottish rugby fan exposed himself on a live BBC show.
OK Rob - where were you!!!
Willy
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Scotsman dropped kilt on live TV
1 hour 13 mins ago
Police are investigating after a Scottish rugby fan exposed himself on a live BBC show.
OK Rob - where were you!!!
Willy
Hmm.... does BBC stand for BIG BIG CODPIECE ??? :icon_cheesygrin:
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Honestly guys it wasn't me:dodgy::icon_biggrin:
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Honestly guys it wasn't me:dodgy::icon_biggrin:
Yeah we only have your word for that Rob.
We will see what Anne has to say when she sees
the clip!!!!:icon_cheesygrin:
If she says it was not you then your in the clear.
If she says that she wished IT was YOU then your in something else!!!!
Willy
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/Willy, hopefully it won't take a "close up" look.....haha :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
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He he She will back me up...she was the one holding the Cam.........oooppsss
LOL
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Hey Rob exposing yourself at a rugby match might get your visa to
return to China denied LOL
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As we all know our Rob here , he has so far alway's shown us the above side of his Belt ... how smart that side is . Now , he decided to go below the Belt and cover that part with us . I find that okay , as we all get to know him better .:icon_cheesygrin::s
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Hey Rob exposing yourself at a rugby match might get your visa to
return to China denied LOL
Oh I forgot...:huh:
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The chinese might require you to raise your kilt for "identification" at immigration, to see if your the great rugby intimadator...:icon_cheesygrin:
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thats a good one rocky but the poor people at the airport
who will have to witness that :dodgy:
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Read it send her a reply. Tell her you met the perfect woman. You have won the lottery. And since she has been gone. You have never been Happier.
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Read it send her a reply. Tell her you met the perfect woman. You have won the lottery. And since she has been gone. You have never been Happier.
Thanks Jimmy...a bit late hahaha But thanks anyway:icon_biggrin:
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I heard that CNN picked up on that and it has been broadcast world wide, by the way also heard that Al-Quida is jelious and ben laden
is furious because he didn't think of it first....:icon_cheesygrin: