China Romance
General Discussion and Useful Links => Ask An Experienced Member => Topic started by: Jimmy on October 07, 2010, 10:24:33 pm
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Is anyone in China going to the US very soon. I need a favor. It is a small favor to do. But a big favor to me.
My exwife has not let me talk to my daughters in about 6 weeks now. For some stupid reason she wants me to send her the phone that I have with me.
I can not mail it from here to the US because it is a used phone I have tried several times. They always take it out of the package and hand it back to me.
But I can mail it domestic. So if someone here in China could take it with them to the US and then drop it in the mail to my daughters I might just get a call from my girls pretty soon.
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Im in chongqing till the 10 since my lady has to go back to work. Dam employers. So i have no idea if that is enough time to get the phone to me or not.
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Jimmy I do not think you can ship it US Post Office. They will not allow it. It is the issue of the battery.
You can send it Fed Ex Ground or UPS once it is in the US. I know Verizon uses FedEx Ground.
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I would think that UPS seems to be the best way to send the phone in U.S, as it is very "secured". I never had any problems with them when I had to send something or buy something and using their services.
By the way, I wish you can hear your daughters soon, Jimmy.
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I am not going back for several weeks.
Why does she insist it is the phone you have?
If she would settle for just a phone then I would have my ex wife send her a cricket phone or something.
I'm using a service that would allow your kids to call you direct if she will allow them to call a number in Denver. If that is OK then PM me your phone number and I will switch it over to your cell phone temporarily and give you the Denver number for your kids to call. I will also need the number they are calling from or they will have to enter a password each time.
You can set the service up for yourself so your kids can call you as easily as making a local call. you can read more about it here. www.localphone.com (http://www.localphone.com)
Pineau
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or via SKYPE or QQ, that would also be a good thing ? :-\
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Mike , Sly Thanks guys I did that years ago. I bought my Skype number when they were first available. And for them to call me it like calling down the street.
You guys have miss the point here.
She is being an asshole and will not let the girls use her phone to call me. She wants my phone. Please don't ask why because she is just an insane women, an American woman. No one can figure them out, or why they do stuff.
To be honest it is her lover causing the problem. She wants no contact from me what so ever. So has demanded I must personally buy the phone and send it to them myself.
I do have 2 Verizon prepaid phones here with me they both have more than $100 of time on them and are still good for 10 more months. She will know it's my phone because it will already be programmed with info only her and I would know. So there is no faking her out. And the desktop picture will be me and my girls since the phone is for them. Her reason, I can call anytime I want to that phone. Her wife will never answer it so does not need to worry it could be me.
Once I get it to the US getting it to them is easy there are a 100 ways. And I do still have control of it from here. If I see 1 minute tick off of it and I have not gotten a call. I turn it off in a couple key strokes.
A couple of weird ass lesbians is what I must deal with here.
The fact I want to get home and get my girls back may make a little more sense to some now.
It's more than just a Dad missing his kids.
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Jimmy looks like she wants to cause you as much stress as she can.Something you definately do not need .I hope you can get them the phone and they dont give you more reasons.Best wishes for you I hope everything works out well.
Ron
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Jimmy,
I can understand your situation completely. My ex is like this ..... insane, and there is NO explaining her. They make outrageous demands, and will not budge. WHY?
because they just want to hurt you, or cause you stress, I know I live it here every week, and on going. To my ex, I committed the worst "crime" possible, I married another woman. But not just any woman. I married a Chinese woman. She just cannot accept that I can be happy. The only way to deal with these crazy ex's is to ignore them. as much as possible. I feel for you man, I know exactly what they do.
Mike O.
Thanks Mike almost sounds like we have the same ex damn. If it were not for my girls. I would just shut her out completely. But you know how that goes.
American women can't live with em and can't kill em.
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And once you have had a child with em,
You can't get rid of em! >:(
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Thats what i would do IGNORE THEM till they go away. That seems to be the best thing to do.