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Title: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: JamesM.Roberts on November 30, 2011, 07:35:13 am
Alright maybe help is the wrong word-But could definitely use your support-well wishes- prayers -finger crossing -candle lighting- rabbit foot rubbing -salt over the shoulder help!!

After what seemed like a eternity of doing nothing, but sitting on my hands and waiting. About a week ago I heard from the NVC that my petition for Ping had been approved by them and was being sent on to the Guangzhou Consulate-Then BAM :o  appointment was scheduled  for December 21st. So after just sitting around doing nothing -This last week saw a flurry of paperwork-(both of my printers are totally out of ink now) and today I just mailed off the last of the paperwork . The U.S. postal service said that they would be delivered in 6-10 business days. Man I hope so!!!
1. Sent Ping money for her physical and trip to Guangzhou
2. Paper work done and sent off
3. Been making wishes -saying prayers-fingers crossed (toes too)-candle's  lit - rabbit's foot rubbed and salt all over the floor

Was told that she'll have their decision by December 22nd-So this is going to be either the best Christmas of my life or the worst! I'll either be dancing around the tree this year or hanging from it. ( alright sorry- I shouldn't have said that-anyways it's a artificial tree, the worst that would happen is the branch would pull out and hit me in the head)
This has to be the worst part-it is totally out of my hands now. I'll I can do now is THINK PINK- THINK PINK -THINK PINK
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Vince G on November 30, 2011, 09:09:59 am
Good to see your making progress at last. I have my fingers crossed most of the time anyway so I can include you in it too. As for the "I can do now is THINK PINK- THINK PINK -THINK PINK" ? This is more info then I need, most or All the men here "Think Pink" all the time but don't announce it.   ;)
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Arnold on November 30, 2011, 11:32:01 am
I know how you feel James ! This is like sitting in the Room next door and waiting for it to open , seeing your Lady with "Pink" in Hand . You are definitely in for some sleepless nights , actually both of you are .
I'll not only cross my Fingers for you , I'll cross my Tools also . ;D
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: David E on November 30, 2011, 05:12:08 pm
It is a tough time James

fingers and legs crossed for you both...but I will leave the "tool" out of the equation Arnold !!!
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: john1964 on November 30, 2011, 08:03:13 pm
James and Ping, I have everything crossed for you both, I hope this is the best Christmas gift you will ever receive, John.
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Neil on November 30, 2011, 08:38:38 pm
Yeah, Arnold it's not healthy to cross your tools. 
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Scottish_Robbie on November 30, 2011, 08:56:52 pm
THATS TRUE nEIL ASK WILLY, HE'LL TELL YOU ;D ;D
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Willy The Londoner on November 30, 2011, 10:13:58 pm
David I am glad to see its not just tools left out of the equation. I see you've gone too!  Much better Avatar now.  She's a beaut'

Willy
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: JamesM.Roberts on December 01, 2011, 07:38:50 am
Good to see your making progress at last. I have my fingers crossed most of the time anyway so I can include you in it too. As for the "I can do now is THINK PINK- THINK PINK -THINK PINK" ? This is more info then I need, most or All the men here "Think Pink" all the time but don't announce it.   ;)

@ Vince G.  ;D ;D ;D  Sorry about that ;D ;D ;D Just goes to show you -how these Ladies can change our lives-Just a short year ago ....I would have caught that before it was written.  Now "THINK PINK" refers to the pink color of a approval letter .....Just goes to show how "ONE TRACK" my mind has become.  ;D ::)
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: JamesM.Roberts on December 01, 2011, 10:35:28 am
Thanks Everyone!!!!
Your well wishes mean the World to me. This little group is something extra special. Just now remembering back to one of my very first postings here. When doubts and apprehensions not to mention my lack of understanding of the Chinese culture, were about to make me walk away from a truly life changing moment in my life.
It was you-all of you  (the Brotherhood) that helped me understand . From.....
Maxx   ( for your 24 hour rule--although it should be updated to 72 hours at least) THANKS
Crystal Tao      ( who guided me to this forum in the first place)  THANKS
Martin      ( who made me understand, that is was unlikely-the whole family who be involved in a scam-they weren't)  THANKS
Arnold   (whose blog and advice with humor helped me immensely -not to mention that his grammar helped me understand Ping's letters better ;D) THANKS
Robertt Snellgrove (who's postings of forms and requirements were indispensable ) THANKS
David E.  ( who was always there with more than a kind word) THANKS
Jason B (whose STILL clean shaven face made me understand that the "dragon" in Ping will never be tamed) THANKS
Willy the Londoner ( your stories from Middle Country are inspirational -if Ping does not get approved I'll be joining you) THANKS
Mikael_Shim  (for showing me in the right direction by example) THANKS
Mpo4747  ( for your friendship and always knowing the right thing to say at the right time) THANKS
RobertBfrom aust  (whose avatar of him in his robe -made it impossible to sleep at night -so I could stay awake talk to Ping) THANKS
Scottish Robbie ( for his friendship, railroad trains and penicillin ) THANKS
Irishman (although largely missing since his marriage-the site is still up and running-a heck of a IT guy) THANKS
Rhonald  (knows how to balance friendship ....and a umbrella)  THANKS
Chong (whose knowledge of China help me immensely -although Cheech was the talented one) THANKS
John1964  (for his friendship and showing me that your never to old to dream...... I was born in 1965) THANKS
Neil  ( who helped me single handily lose 10 pounds-I haven't eaten chocolate since we met) THANKS
Shaun  ( always ready with a kind word and advice) THANKS
Pineau (for friendship-advice-and the courage to take my shirt off in front of Ping) THANKS
Vince G (friendship and keeping me on my toes) Thanks
I am sorry if I forgot to mention anyone by name please know it WAS NOT intentional -There are just SO many people here that have helped me-This IS a GREAT place with GREAT friends-
It is because of you ....ALL OF YOU......That I now sit around getting gray hair and biting my fingernails >:(  THANKS!!!
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: shaun on December 01, 2011, 10:46:24 am
James thanks for the kind words.
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Vince G on December 01, 2011, 10:47:58 am
It is because of you ....ALL OF YOU......That I now sit around getting gray hair and biting my fingernails >:(  THANKS!!!

Welcome to the club.  ;D


I must be spending to much time on FB? I was looking for the LIKE button
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Arnold on December 01, 2011, 02:13:45 pm
I also appreciate your kind words and I'm more than happy to be of help , even if it's only through my Grammar  :o ! With Qing going to her ESL classes , she is actually helping ME with that department .. go figure ? Myself ( most of us here , I'm sure ) , it is such a pleasure to just being here under Friends from around the world .. to give back a little ( sometimes more ) from my happiness I found over the years .
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Scottish_Robbie on December 01, 2011, 04:31:54 pm
kind words indeed my friend ;D
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: David E on December 01, 2011, 04:56:56 pm
Just helping a fellow traveller...thank you for your comments, we are all always happy to help in any way

Cheers...David E
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: David E on December 01, 2011, 05:06:32 pm
David I am glad to see its not just tools left out of the equation. I see you've gone too!  Much better Avatar now.  She's a beaut'

Willy

Hmmmph !!!!

When she actually saw the previous Avatar she gave me a good clip round the ear and TOLD me what I had to do to change the photo........

She who must be obeyed ............ :-\ :-\...or should I say "her indoors"  ;D ;D
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Willy The Londoner on December 02, 2011, 02:52:50 am

Willy the Londoner ( your stories from Middle Country are inspirational -if Ping does not get approved I'll be joining you) THANKS

Inspirational!  Wow! thats new.  My sisters have me in the Old and Senile folder for making this change at my age! ;D

Willy
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: JamesM.Roberts on December 02, 2011, 10:21:36 am

Willy the Londoner ( your stories from Middle Country are inspirational -if Ping does not get approved I'll be joining you) THANKS

Inspirational!  Wow! thats new.  My sisters have me in the Old and Senile folder for making this change at my age! ;D

Willy

Well trust me Willy  it shouldn't be new. Wanting love and happiness isn't old and senile-plus the fact that you are providing love and happiness to your wife.....that's what it is all about.  ;D
Title: Re: Hello Brotherhood-I need your help??
Post by: Martin on December 02, 2011, 02:21:04 pm
When this group was started, I never realized that it would turn in to the group it has become today.  Thank you for your kind words.  It is people like you, and every other member, that makes this little piece of the internet a success.