China Romance
General Discussion and Useful Links => The Campfire => Topic started by: Scottish_Rob on August 07, 2009, 11:23:24 am
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Well guy's I thought about this today...
Have any of you NOT been able to afford to buy credits, and not been in touch with your lady because of it?
Being Unemployed and on the sick i get paid every two weeks, so I have to budget for the buying of credits.. So there has been times that they have not been bought, so i was wondering, am i the only one who goes through this on this site? And has your lady understood about not receiving letters from you?
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the longest I have gone was 12 days.....
she only replies to me.... so I send a letter, and then she answers...
I have held back sending EMF's because of the cost, and I am unemployed now as well
You know mike I still have 19 unused credits left from the site. Maybe I should see if I can transfer them to someone who could use them.
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The longest was three days. She also waits one or two days sometimes when she reply. I try to write her at least every second day, I wish I could write to her everyday.
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We average 4 EMF's a week 2 from and 2 to. Saturday is a phone call so by monday she gets a letter with anything not understood on the phone plus anything else added in. She replies and the cycle starts again. No ones complained yet? so it must be doing alright?
And Rob yeah same boat as you. Any work is so slow it's dribbling. and so is the income.
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I get letters every day whan she is not in China, they are always stuck to the fridg. door.
sorry guys, I couldn't resist, I'll have to work on that :angel:............................ Not, well okay maybe. :icon_biggrin:
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i had to stop writing to my last lady,luckily i hadn't been writing long enough to get to involed before i was made redundant .now im back in work,i haven't found somebody to write to yet,im building my bank balance back up first,so when i think ive found the one,ive got enough to visit at short notice if need be
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i had to stop writing to my last lady,luckily i hadn't been writing long enough to get to involed before i was made redundant .now im back in work,i haven't found somebody to write to yet,im building my bank balance back up first,so when i think ive found the one,ive got enough to visit at short notice if need be
Great idea Stuart, might as well be ready just incase right.
Good luck and best wishes brother
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I get letters every day whan she is not in China, they are always stuck to the fridg. door.
sorry guys, I couldn't resist, I'll have to work on that :angel:............................ Not, well okay maybe. :icon_biggrin:
It is probably the grocery list. Right?:dodgy:
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Rhonald Mike Rob. If you guys want to transfer credits it can be done.I gave all my left over credits to a friend of mine.The way to do it is just change your profile over to who ever gave you the credits.
It caused a little confusion on the part of the translater.But it was easy enough to sort out.The member I.D number is what messed the translater up.
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Rob and Mike, I have to admire your spirit in this difficult time. It's a real hard thing to be going through. Good luck with finding something new. There was a small fall in unemployment rate in the US announced yesterday. People say that we may be through the worst of it.
Vince, it was such a relief when I heard a few weeks back that you only wrote now and then. I could never understand why she wouldn't write every day. But slowly I am beginning to understand that people are different. The fact that she doesn't write every day doesn't mean that she isn't serious about the relationship.
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I got laid off in November last year through tennis elbow (repetative strain) it has took all this time to finally get the operation on it last week, I have another 5 weeks before it heals, (maybe not even properly), then got to organise an op for the other arm (same problem).:huh:
However my trip will come before the op, so may have to get it done in China after I start teaching.:s
Is the unemployment level pretty big in the States? It is over here...:huh:
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Well Rob if you wish to recieve some credits I will glady transfer if I can
I guess I would need your client number - but first i will send an email to customer care to ask if it is possible.
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Great thank you very much mate i will send you my client number soon as you want it mate..Thanks again
Mike thanks for telling Rhonald to give them to me, very much appreciated
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Okay Rob I just sent a message to customer care. I am sure they will okay it since I belive I have heard of someone else doing it. And if I can pass on my good fortune to you - the investment will be well worth it. I hope that hand heals, because you need two hands on the internet - one to control the mouse and the other...........huum :blush: I miss my wife, I miss my wife, I miss my wife
OOps Maxx I didn't see read your posting untill I posted this one. I will wait to hear from customer care to see if they can handle this without us needing to do a switch. I take it that the person you switched it to ended up with 2 profiles.
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it was such a relief when I heard a few weeks back that you only wrote now and then. I could never understand why she wouldn't write every day.
In the beginning we were writing everyday. But soon it went to every other day and leveled off there. Just so much you can talk about? It's not that I'm in a rut? I'm just not doing anything exciting everyday.
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Rhonald yes he ended up with 2 profiles.Do try it your way first.I tried to change the profile back to mine.Just to see if it could still be done and they wouldn't let me change the name
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Rhonald , I think you have done what I thought I would never see anywhere else BUT here . Helping Rob like this is above all duty of our Forum . If we gave out Ribbon's , you be the first ( well second after Michael M . ) to receive it .
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A purple heart :heart: I'm hit, I'm hit! - call a Medic, Medic I need a medic, Heck I need my wife because I got hit in Medic :huh:
Sorry guys - I am a bachelor this week. The house is lonely because my son that I take care of is gone for a week with his mom for vacation. And with summer time here seeing all the lovely couples - makes me miss those I love.
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A purple heart :heart: I'm hit, I'm hit! - call a Medic, Medic I need a medic, Heck I need my wife because I got hit in Medic :huh:
Sorry guys - I am a bachelor this week. The house is lonely because my son that I take care of is gone for a week with his mom for vacation. And with summer time here seeing all the lovely couples - makes me miss those I love.
Rhonald, brother do I know what you mean, mine won't be home for another 3 weeks, been gone for 3 weeks now so I'm at the 1/2 way mark.
Good luck with the empty house bro, I know it isn't easy.
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Dumpling awards - I love it. But to be honest I believe the first award should go to Martin because it was his idea that eventualy gave birth to this form. I also told him we should westernise dumplings and try to make a BBQ Dumpling.
So I nominate Martin - the God father - as the eternal Dumpling spirit guide :angel: The giver of dumpling awards at the famed booth number 10.
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I think I have some unused credits too1 Is there a way to transfer those?
Yes and you and everybody else can transfer them to me! :fi_lone_ranger:
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Haha, I had 24 credits left when Sunny deleted my chnlove account on my laptop. I wish I could have transferred them to someone else, oh well, no need for them any more.
I talk to her on the phone two out of three days and every work day (thats 6 days for her) for most of her working day when i'm up haha. Throw in a few weekly webcams and we probably chat more now than we will when we are married !
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I think I have some unused credits too1 Is there a way to transfer those?
I sent good old customer care an email requesting the transfer. They said that they usually do not do it, but if I gave them the other person's client ID number, they would. Vince has been such a long time member on Chnlove.com that I believe his client ID is CM000005. Why number "5" ? because Noah came forth
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with every one unemployed out there, let me add that with my sick down time, I also am unemployed but the ranch supports itself so I have no bills. I am also retiring so I won't have to work and have soc security.
I wonder how many of us are unemployed? or retired?
Doesn't the Queen kick out a few shillings for you blokes in England, or do you have to resort to selling smuggled viagra on a street corner like Willy.....LOL
By the way, I would like to second that nomination for a dumpling award...