New guy's if you want to jump from woman to woman on the more open sites like blossoms start talking about sex immediately and do the stupid things David E mentioned.
If you are looking for a good woman I wouldn't talk about anything like that for a long time....Just because you are on the internet talking with a woman half way around the world behind closed doors does not mean that you should cast self control aside. I think one should use it more. These are women we are talking to and once they feel like objects they really are not interested. If you allow a woman, in any country, to become aroused by your personality they will use subtle ways of letting you know where the relationship could end up, behind closed doors that is.
That's pretty good advice whether you are online or in person in your own country. Society is changing though, and the younger 'hook up' generation has a different view it seems. I learned a long time ago that if you start focusing on sex too soon it can easily shortciruit the relationship. It gets in the way of finding out other things you need to know. If I was just out to satisfy my lusts there are plenty enough opportunites right in my own back yard.
So I am not too focused on that right now. Learn to know and
respect each other first, and the rest will take care of itself later on at the appropriate time, is my approach. And it'll be better when it does come. We've dropped a few subtle hints back and forth, but since we are mainly using the emfs right now I for one am not going to say anything too overt since someone else is privy to the conversation. We have a ways to go to develop our voice conversations before I'd ever feel comfortable touching on that subject over the phone. Too much room for misunderstanding and not enough foundation in communication to smooth it over.
