the following are a couple of articles written by two chinese ladies in the newspaper;
1- DATING OLDER WESTERN MEN
date,marry and love an older western man (i did) preferably a Canadian or American if you want to have fun and good conversation. They basically act and function 20 to 25 years younger in attitude and physical ability than the average Chinese man. They take better care of themselves (and us).
They are usually better off financially and much more liberal in their thinking toward women and life in general.
Western men in their 40's or 50's are great matches for educated Chinese city women in their 30's or early 40's. many divorced men come here looking for a new beginning and an escape from their past lives. They are quite happy to be with us and cherish our presence in their lives. Give it a try you will like it
2-- ONLY A PERFECT HUSBAND WILL DO
so many of my freinds in Shanghai are like this.they want an older man,but not to much older. He must have an apartment,excellent promotion prospects and a good position. He must be taller than her,handsome,generous and do all the housework. If possible,he should earn enough to let his wife stop working or work only when it suits her.
they never stop and think whether or not they deservesuch a partner.
most of them are approaching their mid to late 30's and have never had a boyfreind and from all this there is a good reason why
just a couple of perspectives i saw in the paper today
