Hi there,
I was reading posts that I haven't read before and I came across yours. I would like to just write a few comments of what I've seen and learned in going to China, being with my fiancee and remembering what all my Christians friends from my church tell me all the time. All of them tell me to be sure to find a christian girl. Going to China and finding a christian girl? Yeah, right, I thought. The best I could do to come close to what my christian friends were advising me to do was to find a very nice girl with a very good and clean heart. Then I could introduce her to christianity and hope that she would like to be a christian too. Well, my fiancee was not a christian but when I was in China with her, we went to look for a christian church and surprisingly found two . We went inside and heard the surmon and my fiancee liked what she heard and now she goes to church almso every Sunday. She is taking classes in church and was to be baptised in December but she might be coming to Hawaii by that time so she can do it here. She loves to learn and live a christian life so i am so happy. Even though you are looking for a Christian man, be aware that in church across America, divorce rate of the members in church is 50% , just like the non-christian world. So what I am saying is that going to church DOES NOT mean he will act like a christian after being married. Many christians do not WALK THE TALK, if you know what I mean. If both husband and wife really follow the Bible, then I think it will help the couple .