Rhonald ,, I did not take it as such . I just felt guilty for doing just that what we try not to do .... wonder off course with somebody's thread . I think you dream did mean , that your Wife and her Son are alway's on your Mind and your subconscious Mind is afraid off loosing them in a crowd , which most likely means in the paperwork and Visa progress .As I have had dreams of a little Girl standing by my Bed one night , that it woke me out of my sleep . I took that as a sign , that has been on Qing's and my Mind , for some time now . Having a Child together , and after that dream , we ( at least I ) knew it would be a Girl , so we picked a name already for that happening . ( Angelia Nancy ) . Now let's see if we can make that dream come true ? Hehe or should it be ...Oh..Oh :huh: