Brian,
Your starting to run at full speed again, slow yourself down mate, get this trip out of the way and under your belt before you start thinking about long term plans. You may come away from China, with more questions than you have answers for. One step at a time Brian, catches the little mouse(y)
By all means be your romantic self over there, but a little word of warning, they also want to see a man they can ''follow''. Which means a man with a strength of character, so please give that some thought before you leave and definitely while your there with her....
David....