Well guys, it seems Zhou's papa wants to talk to ME ( now what did I do ) , it seems that his son is around my age and has a daughter and can not have any more kids ( Med. reasons ), and there are no more males in the family, I have a 13 year old son, so we as a family are going, we leave on 7/6/09, I will be back on 7/18 or 20/09, Zhou, Lili and Kevin will stay until 8/28/09, we already have our Visas so now I am going to have to pay top $$ for airfair for 4 adults and then its off to just out side of Xiamen, Fujian, God how I hate this long trip to get there.