One one of my horrible visits to China I was fairly hostile with the Manager (a bloke) and told him what I thought of their ethics.
He invited me out for a one-on-one dinner to talk it over...and tried to get me blasted on Chinese whiskey...(a bit like gnats p*ss).
After a bottle and a half, he was seriously boned out and began to tell me the real truth about it all !!!
Yes, they are very friendly to their clients, yes they want eveyone to get married, yes they will do everything to get the guy to visit, because it is extra revenue from Ladies fees. Yes they will add flavour to EMF's to get the guys more interested, yes they are rip off merchants if we let them get away with it ::@:@...its all Business, done with a sick smile !!!
They cant really lose can they ?...if all goes well, its their good work, if it all goes pear-shaped...the Chemistry didn't work , not their fault !! And trhere are always thousands of "punters" out there who dont have the benefit of the Brotherhood to help them get through this minefield.
DavidE