Hello Chen Yan
Yes, welcome to the Brotherhood, maybe that should be Familyhood now (actually, is that a word?) Although, i now believe you are talking to one of our brothers, (i wish you both good luck with the relationship) I have always thought it could be a good idea if friends of our 'brothers' or their wives friends who are looking for love should join this forum, as many of us have not had much success with various agencies. This way we know the people here, are genuinely looking for love and are not here to play games or for any other untrustworthy reasons. Maybe we could start our own Dating Site within this forum, where the single ones amongst us, male or female could put their profiles up? I'm not sure what anyone else thinks of this? Well enjoy your time here, and all the best.
Andy....