Brian (and others),
I've read what Jim has said and your reply to him. He is right in what he said about uprooting yourself, so quickly without really knowing what your letting yourself into. Living and making a life in China is a LOT different than going on a two or three week trip. This has nothing to do with the money side of things either. It has everything to do with having the right temperament, and character to over come, the feeling of being isolated by language and culture that you will be living in.
During my time in China, the companies i worked for had huge staff turnovers, where guy's just couldn't come to terms with there environment and language difficulties. They found that every day after the initial, excitement of seeing and doing things in this strange environment, became a daily form of stress to them. In other words, they were just not cut out, to live and work overseas, away from everything they knew and there families... From the time that they first arrived full of enthusiasm, to the time they realised that this wasn't for them, averaged out between 3 to 6 months. Now you also have to remember that these guys were primarily in a English speaking environment during there working hours, and were also living the same in a housing situation too. As the company had rented a complete well equipped housing block for it's Expat English speaking employee's...
From the start of a project to the end of that project, only around 15% of the original Engineers and administration staff remained!!!!
The fact is, if your not cut out for living and working overseas (and you won't find that out until your there, unless you have lived overseas before) you will definitely start to feel isolated. If your not working, and therefore have no outside interest so to speak, you will feel ''Far More'' isolated, and even maybe resentful of having to stay there, especially if you have nothing to go back too, in your own country....
This isn't just aimed at you Brian, but to all those that are intending to make a life in China. The success or failure, is firmly set in those individuals having the right temperament, character and probably personality to survive the initial isolation. To also have the will and determination to learn the language and integrate into the surrounding community.
We know it can be done, we have only to look at Willy and China Shark Mike. I know that Mike had lived overseas before settling in China, and we all know that he can hack his new environment. lol!! Willy, ...well Willy is Willy, he has a character and temperament that will see him do well in most environments he ever found himself in!! ...hahaha!!
I guess i'm just saying to all those planning on taking this leap of faith, to be ''Aware'', because it certainly isn't the life for everyone that tries it....
David....