Brett
Those of us on this Forum who are still looking for that special lady would be sooooo happy to have her to buy a coat for !!!
How can such a thing be a show-stopper...it is nice to buy presents for your beloved...thats what Guys do !
You said several times here that you "love this Woman"...how did that suddenly disappear ?? Or do you now think that it was not love..or it was some other emotion ?
Brett, we are all vulnerable to the wrong relationship...doesnt matter about age or status. And we can all keep flitting from flower to flower looking for the impossible dream....I think the modern Western word is "committment phobia "
But of course, only you can make the final call with you and Ms XXXXXX
But dont keep her hanging on a string, dont make her life impossibly miserable by demanding this, that and the other in an EMF...be a bit gentle with her, she is also a Woman who has never married and would also have some difficulty with relationships...especially with something so scary as Man from the West.
She has created a vision in her mind, maybe for many years as to what she percieves as her Prince, and how they will get married in this Fairy Tale...and what's wrong with that. ?
Dont shatter this lady.......or , as we say in Aus..."piss or get off the pot"
Relax, give it a little time, get to know her more and understand where SHE is coming from...or cut it quick and MOVE ON. She deserves at least that.
DavidE