Here we go Again...

[Arnold]

This is for Robert , to either close this with KeRen or keep her as Friend ? She did receive all our Letter's , but like she said ... well here is her last reply to my last letter to her . I leave it up to Rob now ... what to do with KeRen .
Anyway , Rob .... of course I wish you the best with the new Hunt and still have all the support you can muster .

 From: Kathy Wang (Profile ID: P656032 )
To: arnold dusch
Date: Oct 16, 2009 GMT             Mail ID: P656HEABGGB
 
 

Dear Arnold

Thanks for sending the letter and the beautiful pictures again, I feel really happy to see such a beautiful marriage between you and your laopo Qing, I sincerely hope you will love each other forever and grow old with smiles together .

Rob is really a nice man, I am happy for him to have the good friend as you, thanks for your understanding of my decision, It was hard for me to made this decision, but I have no way to go, people said the real happy marriage is a marriage with everyone's blessing, so I beleive you understand the situation we met now, I made this decision is for the happiness of both Rob and me , the painful time is just temporarily , but the happiness is all lifelong

I am very glad that Chnlove could help so many people find their real love , I beleive every one who wrote to me has a kind heart , I sincere thank every one of you , with your help, I believe Rob will gain happiness with future, I will bless him always .

All my best wishes

Kathy

[Hajo]

Hello Rob,

its always sad when things go the "wrong" way. But as some brothers say, things go the way they have to. Even though it is sad, you never know what it is good for. I wish you all the best for your "hunt" for the right lady.

[Vince G]

Rob, nothing wrong with keeping her as a friend if that's what you want. I do this myself. It's even more fun saying no no you had your chance. :icon_biggrin:
Willy, I sent the shipment of pills you wanted. They sent proof of shipment (see photo). It should be sitting at dock by noon. Good luck. :icon_cool:
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[Arnold]

That should last him a week or two . Hope he does not put that on the Forum Account , as Business expence :@

[Willy The Londoner]

Willy, I sent the shipment of pills you wanted. They sent proof of shipment (see photo). It should be sitting at dock by noon. Good luck. :icon_cool:

Thought you could have done better than just one weeks supply Vince.

Willy

[Arnold]

Hey willy , I could use some ... ones my Wife get's here . You mind ?

[Vince G]

Don't worry Arnold Maxx is rolling your way as we speak.
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[maxx]

Hey Arnold.No worries I will be there in a couple of hours with your supply.Vince also included a pump at no extra charge in case the viagra doesn't work.

[shaun]

lucky stiffs!!!!!!!! :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:

[ron]

That last trap looks familiar.Only thing  missing is the tequila lol

[Willy The Londoner]

Thanks Mike.  Best laugh I have had all day.   Maybe I have already been caught - time will tell if I can or even want to escape.

But until then it is business as usual.  

Is it just me or do Chinese women generally accept infidelity in their lives?  

Willy

[rockycoon]

Top ten reasons why americans like small chinese women......

10. they can be carried when they wear out from walking

 9. they don't have to bend over to remove clothes from the dryer.

 8. they can fix a leaky sink, without all the butt crack and laying all over the floor

 7. they fit in your carry on luggage, no extra cost no extra seat....

 6. can find that impossible bolt, the japenese stick in your car engine, you can never get to..

 5. can actually see the lint and dust under the bed

 4. only need 5 gallon bucket of water to bath in

 3. fit easily into glovebox for sneeking across border or into motor movies

 2. get child discounts at all restraunts (children eat free)..

 1. a glass of beer and ashtray fit on head while your watching the ball game and getting you know what

[JimB]

Rob,
I am so very sorry to learn what happened.  it has got to hurt no matter what.  And i am glad you are moving forward with this and not giving up.  There are thousands of beautiful women in China.  In some ways Willy has the right idea.  Go shopping there, it is probably good to have a friend there to start off with, someone who can show you around, some women to initially meet.  Man I would not trade my LaoPo for anyone in the world but had I known before hand I may have played in their home field for awhile.  Just getting to know some of the amazing women there is half the fun.  By going to the agencies and meeting these ladies face to face will tell you more than 50 EMF's could.  Then there are friends of friends, so many women so little time.  Honestly, I would give Willy's suggestion some serious thought.  Why not go where you have someone to pal with?
Good luck and good hunting.
Jim

[ron]

Rocky you have me crackin up over here lmao.To add to that laist they can figure out how to put things together when you buy them at the walmart and they say made in china.
                    Ron

[Scottish_Rob]

4 weeks to go til I go to Qingdao... Am I excited... of course I am, but obviously not AS excited as I was.

I don't want to do it now...
Tonight I feel hurt, angry, mad, bewildered, devastated, cheated, I feel like my heart has been ripped out of my chest.  I feel like a hare staring at the oncoming headlights and cannot get out of the way.  Tonight Myself and arnold spoke at length on some things concerning this with Ke Ren.  He showed and told me something that has made me believe that 'SHE' did love me.  I do not want to go into detail and I ask that no one question this.  Suffice to say I believe it to be true.  I asked a question of him "What if I 'bump' into her at the agency, or in town or out shopping" Will she speak to me?  Maybe what I should have asked "What if I bump into her, how will I feel?   Deep down I know I will feel mad, angry hurt, want to say something, but most of all I will feel love.  

This woman grabbed my attention with her looks, she totally captivated me with her words.  I know that you people that are not as romantic as myself or maybe Brian will say, "How can you fall in love with a picture?"  Well for the romantics it is not just the picture.  it is the words, the meanings behind the words, the laughter she gives you, the anger when you hear she is in some sort of trouble.  It is everything combined, and no matter what anyone say's 'we' will always see that.  So in a sense, 'we' are to blame also, we put these ladies on a pedestal, out of reach of normality -- in our eyes. Maybe we deserve everything we get.

All this bravado with myself getting replies to cupids, and sending letters etc.  That's all it is... BRAVADO, although getting letters and cupid replies and admire mail is all true.  Personally I don't think I'm ready for this.  What am I going to do, well what else can I do about it but go and face the demons.

I know you guys have been right behind me, and I thank you all.  I know you will probably say, ether don't go, or go somewhere else, or you have to move on.  The point is, I know this, but at the moment I am finding it tough.  Many of you will probably know this because of my recent answers to other brothers posts, or the way I have posted some threads since.

I am most probably the best guy on here capable of putting a Brave Face on things, because of my past.  Sometimes there is nothing that can be said when someone feels like this, so although I have everyone's backing, I know I must go on with the Brave face. So if for the next couple of weeks or so, if I am not as active as I once was, don't worry, you will know why?

Last night I looked at the information I have concerning school, colleges, and universities in the area.  I wrote them all down into my notebook that I am taking.  Names, addresses, phone numbers, email addresses etc etc.  I have something like 30 places to try.  As it turns out NOW, I will use this trip to scout for work, although I have some lined up starting in March.  I decided the other day that I will be as prepared as much as I can be, to go to these places and try face to face looking for work.  This is the reason for the suit guys.

Will I enjoy being there?  The short answer is NO, not as much as I would have done if things hadn't turned out the way they did.  But there is one thing I haven't mentioned, and that is.   IF it had not been for meeting Ke Ren through the web site, i would not have meet all you nice people, or have been going on a journey, that deep down I know will be the TRIP of a lifetime...