Perhaps part of my thought process has been influenced by my experience here in the US with various dating sites.
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[1] Don't know how it is in the USA,
but I found that China is full of stunning woman who think they are plain.
Regrettably, in NZ its the other way round. :icon_cool:
Who could not be drawn to a culture that can show such grace, dignity and history??
[2] My working hypothesis is that woman are inately smarter than men :icon_biggrin: . Chinese woman in particular seem to have a radar that homes in on inauthenticity.
[3] I've found the practice of creating space and silence a useful way of letting my lady express what really concerns her, even if it turns out to have no substance.
It appears that many chinese woman have not had the experience of being really listened to....and are quietly appreciative.
As an audio dude, I'm sure you understand this.
PS. It doesnt work in a chinese restaurant. Any chinese restaurant :icon_biggrin:
A question, is the yahoo messenger software available to the ladies in China, I noticed a lot of people mentioning “QQ” is that the name of the software, that is most available to the ladies in China?
We use Yahoo Messsenger exclusively, including both Webcam and sound features. It works well, tho does not seem able to manage the not infrequent power cuts to apartment blocks in Shenzhen :-(
I also use Google translate in a window below Yahoo. I've found it neccesary to go English-> simplified Chinese-> English, to make sure the translator does not take too many liberties with my English.
If you find a lady with whom you wish to go deeper, I suggest switching on the Yahoo archive feature and backing up the archives. You will need concrete evidence of relationship if you want to be together in USA. HTH :icon_biggrin:
