Thanks for the welcome guys. Already feel better. I chose mustfocus as an alias because that's what I have to do. Got to focus on a few things and get them done...one of them being to find my special one.
Brian: I've seen references to Maxx's 24 hour rule, but I can't seem to find it (or I really suck at using the search engine).
Arnold: I know most are not scams having gotten to know one of the girls. It didn't work out, but after investing two years into that, I had to take a break. Although I partially blame the agency for some of the problems we encountered.
Brett: I noticed, glad that you're living the dream!
Ron: Thanks. I feel a little better finding this site, although after reading some of the stories, I'm also a little discouraged. But I can always hope that I'll be lucky...