In my situation , we never really talked about Money itself , but she is well aware of how my three Trip's and the all that goes along with has cost me . She has mentioned that herself in one of her letter's to me . Not that I have told her in $$$ amount's , not going to do that , even though she is worth every $ of course . She also is aware of the bad Economy here in Calif . especially . She also know's I'm not rich or wealthy . I realize she has money to take care of herself well , having owned two Aquarium Stores , which she sold after we met , so we could have the free time that we did have on my Trip's . Now work's for her brother as an Accountant , for which she studied in Tokyo along with learning the japanese language . She also let's me know that she wants to go to work here in the States , so we can have a comfortable Life together , in her own words , but she does not drive a car , so this will be the first obstacle to get over , ones she has somewhat adjusted to Life here , which is not going to be hard , since she is used to being away from her Family for over five years , and she knows the western way's pretty well already . Let say , that is what I'm banking on , but we will see ?