Yes, having fallen out of favor with Chnlove, if you have read my post on previous threads you will know my story. In all honesty, i will never use them again, before Chnlove i had a go on Asian euro and had a couple of good results, (with Asian girls in the UK) but there were also alot of girls, who by reading their messages were angling for money or some sort of sugar daddy to pay for everything. Now, i am on Chineselove links, it is affiliated with Asian euro, and i'm having some success there. I'm in touch with three girls at the moment, one i think i'm definitely punching above my weight,:icon_cheesygrin: she is a proper Chelsea girl, very well paid job, flash car and a flat in Chelsea harbour. Definitely a go getter, where i'm kinda of a beach bum/ surfer who's happy with my lot in life. The other two, both Chinese living in the UK, one who writes to me more often at the mo, is only a ten minute drive from my flat...So could be meeting her pretty soon. The other girl, who to be honest, i am more attracted too, looks, dress sense, interests etc, and she's tall. (i'm 6'4) and i'm hoping things will develop with. But rather annoyingly lives in Scotland. (shhh, don't tell Rob!!!:icon_cheesygrin:) But unlike the girls in China, all of these are in my time zone, so it's easy to keep in touch with them, and all have pretty good English. But even with this site, you have to sort the wheat out from the chaff, but that's the same with all of these sites right? It is annoying, as with my profile, i have stated that i am only looking for love within my own country, but i still get regular messages from girls in China...! Guess they are just trying their luck? As like me, i have always thought ''If you don't ask, you'll never get''
I think it all comes down to what your looking for, as like i say, i have now given up with Chnlove, Three failures, including one trip out there. Now,i think i will stick to the Girls already in the UK, as i do not know about the rest of the world, but the UK boarder agency is one of the strictest around, There is such a thing as a fiance visa, but there as rare as hen's dentures....!!She could come in on a student visa, but only if she has a guaranteed place at a college before she arrives, If she has her own business, she could apply for a business visa, but on going out to China, i sat next to a lady on the plane who had done this (for work reasons) and she was only granted a 5 day visa...!! From what i can tell, the only real way of getting your girl in, is to marry her in China, visit her regularly and after about a year, she should be granted a spousal visa, but again its not guaranteed!! And for me, i would never consider marrying a girl from overseas before she had spent a few months living with me in my country first. Sorry, going off on a bit of a tangent here...:icon_cheesygrin:
If you want to meet a Chinese girl in China, there are a lot of sites that will cater for you, and who knows, in your search, you may find a Chinese lady already in your country, but not with Chnlove, all the profiles i went through, i did not find one who was living outside of China. The main plus with these other sites is that you can join for three months at around £30. So £100 would get you three months membership at three different sites, (i was spending about that every month keeping in contact with one girl on Chnlove..!) and you can send as many messages as you like, it does not cost you to receive messages to you either. And normally you will have direct email addresses within 2/3 replies. Also with these other sites, all the girls seem to have their own computer and internet connection. (including the ones in China) And as you upload your own pictures (no agency) the vast majority that i have seen are from holidays snaps/mobile phones/webcam pictures, so you know what the girl really looks like.
But everyone is different right? i know some guy's here really rate Chnlove, but like with every site, keep your wits about you as there will be scammers. But if like me, and you have had no luck with Chnlove (or another site you are using) Why not try another one?
Andy...:icon_biggrin:
