When You know it is just right

[rockycoon]

" Also there are a couple of local women who have been pouring it on trying to get me to go out with them.

Shaun, you may have stubbled upon a good item (how to make american woman jelious)...or  you could "take advantage" of
the situation....(who me?) :blush: Na Shaun wouldn't do that would he.....:angel:

By the way Shaun, if you open the door to go to the airport and there is an angry mob outside with signs that say,
"don't go shaun" and "we love you Shaun"  I would say that your family is serious....:icon_cheesygrin:
sneak out the back door...heh heh :icon_cool:

Good luck my friend....dont forget the beef jerky for TED, he wants to feed belly dancers in the park with it....hahaha

[shaun]

Josh, Ronan, Ted,

Thanks for the comments and encouragement.

Don,

What can I say.  There is an old saying, too many women and so little time. :angel:  The thought crossed my mind a time for two.  One is really good looking, I mean REALLY good looking, she told me she was a member of the mile high club.  She also told me she could keep me warm at night.  Tempting?  Yes.  Follow through?  No.  I think what lies before me will bring much more happiness than a couple of nights with another woman.

The angry mob will be 3 children and a few co-workers and they do not scare me.   Well... except the oldest daughter.  She is a personal trainer and teaches self defense while going to Physical Therapy school. Her under graduate degree is in exercise science.  Now she could not only hurt me but she might be able to hog tie me.  I wonder if I can still bribe her with milk and cookies?

[Willy The Londoner]

  All that will change when I come back and I am still the same person, well.....  almost the same person.  :icon_cheesygrin:

Well the bets are on for you returning clean shaven.  

One way or another the old mans goatee beard is going.  Like it or not.  You doze off in the afternoon and swish it is gone.

 You will not even feel the shaving cream.  One piece of that hair removing plaster, the stuff that ladies use on their legs, one piece slapped across your face and swish it is gone.  Accompanied by a mighty scream from our Shaun.

 They may not get it all with the first try but my money is on you shaving the rest yourself before they get the second plaster ready!!!!

Willy

Tell the beard it is on borrowed time.

[ttwjr32]

well back on topic here,

shaun just tell the family- because i know it is just right--

and tell them why you feel that way thats what i did and
it worked well for me

[shaun]

I am already there.  My sister is playing the disappearing act right now. :icon_cheesygrin:

[Bee964]

Shaun,

I have the full support of my kids and my parents. It was the single women that I know here, in Canada, that gave me the flak about eastern women. Usual comment was, "Western women not good enough for you?" I would usually just say, "Thats right!" or no comment at all. Every man that I know that has followed this route has told me to go for it! You will not regret it. I'm going for it. 2 weeks from tonight I will be at the airport hotel trying to get some sleep before my flight. I know I will not succeed in getting any. I am having trouble sleeping now. BTW, how does one edit the "registered user" to read something like 14 days to go?

Dave C

[ttwjr32]

Dave,

go into your user cp and you can change there

Ted

[Martin]

Dave...where are you flying out of...Toronto, or Detroit?

[shaun]

Dave C,

It is almost the same here. Most of the single women I know have given me a lot of flack about it and most of the men say go for it.  One woman said, "What's wrong, you cant handle an American woman?"  My response was, "I don't want to handle an American woman."   There is a "been there done that" woman at work when she said why I said, "been there, done that, got the divorce to prove it."  She about knocked the crap out of me.

We're leaving the same day.  You back up in Canada again?  What airport are you flying from?

Go to User CP.  It is in the left hand corner of your screen just below Welcome back Dave.  Then in the left bar, edit the profile.

Shaun

[Bee964]

I'm still in florida right now. Trying to help my mother around here, She tells me she doesn't need it though. I will return to Windsor in about a week to get ready for my trip. I am leaving from Detroit. My main concern about the trip turned out to be travel time to and from the airport. (30 minutes versus 3 1/2 hours) Thats wrong, my main concern about the trip is my lady! I am looking forward to the trip and meeting her. I have just started to chat with her on QQ as well as exchange text messages with her. I can't get enough of her. If things do work out with her I will have a story to put up here to go with the pictures. I plan on taking as many as I can. I sent her flowers today, just because. She seemed happy about that. Sent me a text when she got them. Things just seem right when I converse with her. I have the feeling that my life is about to have a big change in it. I hope it is for the better.

BTW, thanks for the direction on finding the registered user stuff. Once again, right in front of me...

Dave C

[ttwjr32]

Dave,

hope for the better??? looks like and sounds like everything is progressing along fine.
looking forward to all the good news you will be posting here in a few weeks. and thanks
for all the other things you did. very grateful for that.

[Bee964]

Ted,

I was happy to do what ever I could to help you out. I don't mind helping anybody out. Hope to meet up sometime in the future. KunZhi was from Shenzhen and she has family all around that area so if things work out with us I may be in your neck of the woods in the future. This may be a year or so down the road though. I expect to spend some time with her family in the near future.

I will be in contact with you soon Ted.

Dave C

[ttwjr32]

looking forward to it

[rockycoon]

Let's make that bet, shaven and married....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz   where did my beard go,,,I'm what.....to who?.....damn those pills......
:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:

[shaun]

Hi all,

I have had a very difficult 4 days.  A lot has happened.  First I need to fess up on a few things.  When I started on this site back in June 2009 I was a few days from my divorce.  Well, the judge turned it down.  My wife and I met about it.  We continued.  In August, she filed it again and once again it was rejected.  I was writing the divorce papers and we were bypassing the lawyer route.  The judge finally said to me, in essence that as long as I did not use a lawyer that he would do all he could to keep from granting the divorce.  He suggested that she get a lawyer.  She looked and finally found one.  The plan was to file in October but it didn't happen.  There was a difference in opinion.  Got it cleared up and was suppose to file again in December.  January I began to push her to file.  All that to say that I am not divorced as I have been portraying myself.  For that I am sorry, but it always looked like it would be completed any day now.  So here I am 11 days to go and I am still married.

Last week I gave her some more money to go to the lawyer.  Something happened, I do not know what it was but the lawyer quit.  I think they got mad at each other.  At first she said it was my fault but last night she said it was her fault.  Tuesday she has an appointment with another lawyer but it appears that it will not happen before the China trip.  I tried to speak with her lawyer to find out and he asked me to leave his office.  I did.

I just finished speaking with Peggy.  What a trouper.  She said, "come to China, I will wait for you."  Now how about that.  Spoke with one of my children about it and she said, "Dad, there is no marriage here for you, go find out if she is the one."  Huh, am I blessed or what?

So I am happy and sad all at the same time.  Happy because Peggy is absolutely the greatest and my daughter is too.  Sad because of the drawn out marriage and keeping it hidden from all of you.

Shaun