bizarre relationships

[rockycoon]

How about Cher and her bagel boy lover? :icon_cheesygrin:

[ttwjr32]

its a little different here as the kept woman isnt looked upon
 like they would be in the usa

[Neil]

I asked Nina to confirm my suspicions.  Yes, it's true.  She also was adamant about the fact that this was not her lifestyle, but she doesn't judge her friends.  So, while the lifestyle is not for everyone, it is not something that is necessarily looked down upon.  The situation seems to work for them.

[chen yan]

I ever know this kind of girl with married man (Normally this kind of girl is poor), But I just couldn't be friend with them, the value oriented is totally different .
 Why this kind of rich man can have wife and girl friends at the same time, Because he knows no one can leave him because different seasons.
 Now the society become more and more tolerent. I feel sad.

[RegnisTheGreat]

chen yan

Just a thought: If both parties are OK with the arrangement, is it really bad? That's what I ask. I understand you may not agree with it and I do not agree with it. But if the man and woman both go into it knowing how it works and are OK with it, then is it really bad?

[Vince G]

Ah, but it is a path that will end in heartbreak or worse for at least one of them, if not all. To each their own...

[chen yan]

It is ridicuous two woman can agree to share one man, But somtimes it did happen.I ever talked with the man and his first wife about their feeling.It is just too complicated to fix it and the battle between these two women will never end,even they live in two cities, the family is malformed.

One woman will wear shaun out :icon_cheesygrin: let alone a bevy of them.  Willy, I believe shaun will be a good long lasting customer for you...haha   No offence Shaun, but more than one would make your dig-a-ling fall off or give you a stroke.  Although it is an idea, Willy can hook you up I am sure.  Besides too much will make you go blind....:icon_cheesygrin:

haha, That's true, That's why None of Chinese Emperor live a long life.

[Danny]

chen yan

Just a thought: If both parties are OK with the arrangement, is it really bad? That's what I ask. I understand you may not agree with it and I do not agree with it. But if the man and woman both go into it knowing how it works and are OK with it, then is it really bad?

This ethical question is something that has been discussed by philosophers for many hundreds of years.

Like many things it depends on the definition of the terms you are using.

I would say that it is right and proper for people to live as they wish.

However I would not wish for anyone that I cared about to live in this way - whether as the man, the wife or the girlfriend.

However many worse things happen, and all of the time.

[Philip]

Watch Raise the Red Lantern, a Chinese film by Zhang Yimou. It is a historical story of a wealthy man and the four wives who compete with each other for his favour. Women's roles may be different now, but I can't see things ending happily for the women.

[shaun]

chen yan

Just a thought: If both parties are OK with the arrangement, is it really bad? That's what I ask. I understand you may not agree with it and I do not agree with it. But if the man and woman both go into it knowing how it works and are OK with it, then is it really bad?

Reg,

The simples answer is yes.  Someone always ends up getting hurt.  The human emotion cannot always be trusted because situations change.  People change their minds.  Then what do you do?

I will not say that there are not relationships like this that remain successful but I have never seen one.

Everyone I have ever seen has led to tragedy.

Shaun

[Jadams79]

Wasnt there a story within the last year, that a man with many wifes that one of them ended up tweaking out and trying to kill the 5 of them in a car accident?

[ttwjr32]

i just think if your in a relationship then you are
in a relationship. for me just one lady is enough

[maxx]

Jadams 79 Yes I read the same story.If I remeber correctly the  wife flipped out and tried to kill all of them at the same time.In a car

[RegnisTheGreat]

Okay definately not for me then, I want to live. Then again I know always it was one and only one for me

[Martin]

If i recall, this is the story you guys are talking about.  It took a bit of searching, but I found it.  I don't know who originally posted it for us.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/02/17/china.mistress.contest/index.html