thats a few good points maxx
overthinking and expecting the bad will
surely get you those results i was very lucky
with my wife she spoke good english and it is me
now stumbling to learn chinese. i didnt require good
english as i was willing to learn chinese.
this brings me to this point--- seems like and i could be wrong as i have
no numbers to verify this but many people
think the lady should move and adapt to the
new country and learn that language but what
about us learning their language and culture also
we should not expect them to give everything up
it is a 2 way street. we are not some kind of saviour
for these women but just someone looking for a good
good lady to marry and when we find her we should also
make many concessions in the relationship. ive spoken to
people living here and working who will not marry a chinese
lady because of language and customs?
well what do you
expect??? but they are ok to go out with and have fun???
just amazes me what goes thru peoples minds sometime. i ask them
have you learned chinese they say no??? dont want to to hard???
ok i will shut up