Maxx and the others,
I do not condone the practice of writing to more than one woman either Maxx. And I am not a player. I know nobody has implied this of me either. One woman I was writing to last summer sent me a letter and kept addressing me as John. She knew my name obviously from my profile. I had asked her near the start if she was conversing with other men earlier and she had said no. Then I get that letter so I confronted her about it and she admitted talking to several others, so I said bye and good luck. It was her loss. The women on here can be players too. I could never keep track of writing to two women at the same time. I would eventually screw up and then have nothing for all the effort and extra cost. I was just wondering if there was a way that the women could check up on us guys to see if we are on the level about what we say to them. We are always trying to find out if they are really what they claim to be or if they are being faked by their agency. I would have to assume that the same thoughts have crossed their minds too. If you read ttwjr32s thread PEACE SIGN then you can see how the women can be a little jeleous at times. Just as we would be if our lady was writing to other men too. I for one don't like being played for a fool and I am certain that every other guys here feels the same way. I am sure the women don't want to be played for fools either. I have always done things by your 24 hour rule here, sort of. I like to print the letter and reread it a couple times thru the day before I reply to her. I found it gives me time to think about what she has said in it. I always find that there is something that I miss in the original letter. Like you say Maxx it gives me time to think about what she has said to me and get an idea of what she is really saying to me in the letter. As I have gotten to know her over the short time I have written to her, 2 months, I am starting to get the feel that some of the letters are from her and a couple may be from the translator. I am going to meet her soon so I will find out for sure. I am going to bring the letters that she has written to me, translated of course, and see if they are all from her. I think Vince had found out that not all the letters he got were from his lady, that some were generated by the translator. I did notice that the agency she had signed up with has been given a good rating by the other guys here that were dealing with them. (P508) But I did notice that there were a couple bad marks against them in the past couple months. Possibly a sign they are slipping? Maybe just a couple difficult customers to deal with? I would not know. And as for the agency being only signed up with the ladies, they are the end receiver of the EMF money are they not? That would make you a paying customer to that particular agency too, right? Maybe thats why they feel obligated to find you someone else if it doesn't work out with the lady you come over to meet.
I just wanted to know if there were a way for the ladies or translators to see our credits or credit history. With reguard to my lady, she had written to other men, even had a meet and greet with one, but has told me that I am the only one writing to her now. She insists she is a one man woman. Thats good to know for me. :icon_cheesygrin: I tell her that I am a one woman man. :angel:
Dave C
