Well I am sure this topic could easily become a hate thread for western women that is not my intent even though the first story I have are about western women. But I thought it would be interesting to see why many of us are pursuing Chinese women.
I have seen posts here and there but I am thinking lets put them into one thread.
For me, I have many reasons, The first is because I have always liked Asian women. I dated one while I was in college. Walking away was a big mistake. After a 27 year marriage fizzled out I decided that I did want to marry again but when I looked at the available western women it just turned my stomach. The things they said about men, the things they would never do again, the things the would insist a man do... I didn't want to marry into a culture like that again. I do not necessarily blame the women as much as I do the current culture we live in.
Don't get me wrong, there are good western women. My concern at 55 was would I be able to find one. I don't want to have to do this a 3rd time. Having grown up in El Paso, Texas I first though I would pursue a Mexican woman. But my store is next door to two different Korean women and both of them beautiful. So I began searching on the internet and a dream was born. I decided the most beautiful was Chinese and made the decision.
I have not regretted one day my decision to pursue a Chinese wife. I have difficult and frustrating days but no regrets. Plus I'm 55 and I don't have to explain myself to anyone. I have been accused of wanting a wife who bow to my every command and be a sex slave. I generally do not respond to such comments. A single female friend said that to me plus she said, "You know I don't think you can handles an American woman." Because she is a friend my response was, "No it is because I do not want to handle an American woman." She actually understood what I meant.
Every now and then something happens that reconfirms why I am looking for a Chinese wife. The following is a discussion have happened on my facebook page. The one who is called the Bitch and one other woman are both cousins of mine. The others I do not know. When I read it I thought this is exactly why I do not want an American wife. Well kind of sort of... but is is one of the reasons.
The last names and pictures have been removed;
Jess: Dear Promotional Items sales dude who called me a bitch and hung up when I said we didn't need any promotional items at the moment: Your boss seems very nice and was very impressed by your sales technique when I talked to him. Love, the bitch.
Jr and 10 others like this.
Laura: You rock! There is one guy who won't have a job soon...
Jr: LMAO! Karma! What a ride!
David: Unbelievable!
Kelly A-B : Atta girl!!
James : Can i have his number too? I'd like to impress upon this gentleman how small of a world it is.
Laura: go girl!!!!
Jess: Absolutely. The sales dude's name is Kevin, who works for *** Industries. His boss, Mike, can be reached at ***-***-****. Mike seemed pretty horrified. Apparently Kevin had NO idea what kind of bitch he was calling.
Doug: Hmmm...guess he didn't figure ANY radio stations would ever need promotional items...cause you know 1, you never hear about them giving stuff away with their name on it, and 2, they never talk to anyone.
Estelle: good for you!!!
Robert: Don't send a guy .. Beotch!! with turrets to do your cold calling! Awww--sheot! Radio peeps are the ultimate gypsies. That ship is sunk.
Jr: Oh you mean THIS *** Industries
http://www.*************.com/ the one a local bank probably uses to rent a One Arm Bandit Money Machine from? I'll have to tell them to about Mike. LOL!
Shawnta: I think it is funny when they call women like us 'bitch'... Oh honey, you haven't even remotely seen a 'bitch', but don't worry, we will show you, you'll see one.
Jess: The thing is, he's right, I AM a bitch. Which means he should know better than to mess with me. I bet he knows now.
Jr: Mmmmm...being assertive doesn't necessarily make one a bitch and besides, the customer is always right (even when they are wrong) hence, either way, it's his bad.
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It really makes you wonder.
Shaun