The estate agent who found my flat has a conspiracy theory that China and Hong Kong have a secret agreement to prevent Chinese prostitutes from flooding the clean streets of Hong Kong. At first, I didn't believe him. Now I'm starting to.
I came to Hong Kong convinced that my wife would be able to get a dependency visa based on my working visa. The Human Resources department at my school in Hong Kong told me it would just be a formality. But it is not true. For any other country in the world (apart from Afghanistan, Korea, Cuba and Mainland China), it would have been a formality. But I only found out when I arrived. The HRD have been useless and unsympathetic. They said they would find out for me when I expressed my worries, but they did nothing. I had to find out by asking other people. Turns out there are many people, even parents of children in my school, where the father has Hong Kong ID, so do the children, because they were born here, but the mother is from mainland China, she can only have a 90 day toursit visa. So every 90 days, she takes the kids out of school, usually in term-time, to go to China for a week and reapply. How long will they do this? For ever? I call the HRD inhuman resources. They have not apologized for their multiple errors, or shown any reget on my behalf.
So, my wife has been trying to get a 90 day visa. Last week, it seemed she wouldn't even get that. She has been dealing with a particularly unhelpful person at her local office, and, as we all know, she can't apply anywhere else. We were seriously considering living and commuting from Shenzhen, and after I had signed a year's contract on my Hong Kong flat.
In order for her to apply for the 90 day visa the local office needed a copy of my Hong Kong ID card and a return home certificate. I explained to my wife that no such thing exists in Britain. Britain couldn't care less if I ever return home. But I sent a copy of my working visa, which is for 12 months, then renewable.
Hong Kong does not want my wife to come. China does not want her to leave. But I want her to come and she wants to come, and we are both very determined people. So, finally, today, China caved in to my wife's constant questions and let her have the 90 day visa. I will visit her in Changsha in my school half-term on the 16th - we will stay in Changsha until the 24th, her birthday, when we will come together to Hong Kong. Well, barring any more problems.
Well, what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.