I will try not to write a chapter from a book here. There is one subject maybe I should make clear? for a few. My problem is unique. Some even think I'm making things up? But unfortunately I am not. The only reason I have wrote any of this is to make men aware of marrying a woman (any culture) that is after your pocket and not your heart. There are many details with this which you'll have to wait for the book to read. I will answer questions about it outright or in PM to help some. But what always gets to me is when said that I am sitting doing nothing? I should go to China. I can not understand where this assertion comes from?
If I could travel to China to meet these women, don't you think I would have? It doesn't take to much brain power to understand. Some think I make excuses? Ah! I'm not making any, I just don't want to get into this whole concept at the time. There are times when I start thinking about it, I get to upset and bad things come from it, like depression for one.
I will say parts of the government, federal, state and local, the family laws, and I'll include immigration need a Colonic. The problem extends from people with small lives are given some power. They over extend that power that they believe they are judge and jury. An example of this is going down to the dept. of Family Services (right over here, I walk there) and waiting to talk with someone about the problem (money paid but not credited) I'm told by this clerk "I'll have you put in jail" calling his bluff and waiting to belittle him I said... "You" You'll put me in jal... your just a little f****ng clerk that types into a computer, go ahead do it. I get to sit and watch tv all day and have meals served." Maybe I created a problem with this?
I'll rap this up with "I will travel to China as soon as I am able". It's not a money issue (none to travel with), i's not a time issue (have to ask time off to go) it is a government issue. ALL STATES have a certain amount that if a parent owes more then (most states) $2500. their Passport is taken, along with their Tax returns, drivers license, auto registration and any money in your bank accounts. THAT'S THE LAW!
Meanwhile... I have my file and have an appointment at 2 pm with one of the new lawyers. Throwing this in as an afterthought... With all of this child support issues, fact is my "children" are adults in their 20's.