Shaun, I am working overtime on the reassurance. while she sleeps, I sneak in some time during my afternoon to write her. Little love notes, messages of encouragement and my belief that heaven put me on the path to me her. While claiming to not be a spiritual person, she admires that view. most mornings (evenings here) she seems happy, it's after she goes through a couple days of the jealousy and people telling her she won't have any friends. I am trying to find someone local with Chinese wife, but as I currently live in Owosso, most of the Asian wives here are either married to another Asian or they are Korean or Phillipino, aside from Vietnamese family that runs the "Fortune House Chinese Restaurant" downtown, bit of a joke really, mall Chinese food that reeks of too much nak phlam, or the two Chinese families that own the other two Chinese Buffets. Lansing is a more diverse area and I'm starting to reacquaint myself with some folks there. I've been out of the social net there for a couple years now after having lived up here. Two of my old clients when I worked sales while attending MSU have closed up shop and retired. However they remember me, like me and are going to help me and Yuan to negotiate the obstacles to open a business in East Lansing, next to the campus.
Must, yes, I planned on the China town trips, figured Chicago and TO would be the best two. I don't know Windsor, I always shot across to Sarnia and drove across, but I was at Ft. Drum when I was in the army. Living west of Flint, kinda made it easy to just shoot over that way instead of going across in the D. Typically anymore, I only go to the D to hit Bass Pro in Auburn Hills, the airport, or for Hockey.
I know exactly how to get to China town in Chicago, not hard, when the Ryan hooks left, you exit straight and "tada" it's China town. I've also told her we would take some trips down there anyway.
For now, she just told me she's going shopping, but not what for. Being evasive... hmmm..... She also said something about we have one month. Yeah, I like she, am painfully aware of that.
Yes, I did manage to calm her again. I will keep up the work until I sack out for the night and start again in the morning.
Lloyd