Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.

[Pineau]

Occasionally I get a request from a lady friend in China to introduce her to a western man.  I am not a match maker but I like to help when I can. Since this is the dating area I thought  I would start a thread for single visitors to maybe connect with the opposite gender.

So if you have an old girlfriend or an unmarried friend, sister-in-law that is ready for marriage, I guess this is a place for it.

[Willy The Londoner]

I could probably fill these pages with the women I have met who are looking for a good 'foreigner'.

I tell them that  all the good ones are spoken for.   There was a lot of men came to our agency site but I doubt if many of those were good as most just wanted the women to come on webcam and take their clothes off.  Amongst other thing!  And they expected the translator to know the words of all sorts of acts.  They used to think that for their few bucks a month they could get into all sorts of perverted conversations.

No wonder these women are wary of foreign men in the first few months.

Willy

[Martin]

WOW...is it really that bad Willy?

[john1964]

Hmmm, I have been on QQ international since about July this year and have had many "friend" requests for women looking for western partners , I have accepted a few who just want to improve their English and I am happy to help with the permission of my wife.
Willy, you say that most men just want these women to take their clothes off, In my experience over the last few months, It is the Chinese women who have sent me nude photos of themselves without me even asking or even wanting to see them nude, These women are in the 30-45 year bracket and i am very surprised that they removed their clothing being of Chinese culture, I guess that they have had the experience of the dreaded western man and think this is the way to attract a western man ??, Last thing i ever expected was for MinYing to remove her clothing on webcam for me,, never happened and I never ask for it.
 If i ever met a Chinese woman on QQ before marrying my lovely wife who was willing to remove her clothing then I think I would have had a completely turned off Chinese woman , This is the sort of thing i expect from the WESTERN WOMAN. John.

[Willy The Londoner]

I am talking about those men who joined the agency I was running. Two emails and the majority thought they could say what the wanted to the women.   Cannot speak for the wormen on QQ as that was a place I never ventured.  Hmm! But maybe I will now

Better not as my wifes English is getting better by the day.

Willy

[john1964]

Just my experiences over the last few months on QQ, Do not know what it is like on other sites, I am still happy to talk to other women/men, I am happy to help others with their English and in exchange improve my Chinese at the same time, John

[Pillow]

My experience on  QQ over the past few months has been the same as John.  I even quit accepting QQ requests unless I know them through language site or someone else I know.  It's not really what I expected to get naked photos and a few times connecting the webcam to a naked girl.  With the game playing I found on ChnLove last spring and the QQ experiences being complete opposite of what I thought was traditional Chinese culture, I have actually backed off a bit on my search for a Chinese wife.  I will PM my QQ if you want to pass it on to the ladies.

[Pineau]

I started this thread here because I thought it would be a safer place for the women because the men that come here are either married to a Chinese lady or looking for one. I have asked the mods to make this thread only visible to registered members of this site. That way they can get booted if they are abusive or vulgar. I am still waiting for an answer.

I have had similar experiences on QQ. I get random friend request and sometimes after I accept I get a naked girl or photo. That's just part of life. There are horny people everywhere. It is easy enough to delete them.

Most of my QQ friends are people I know or friends of friends. Many are connections that I met when searching the dating sites. Although I am married we can still exchange emails and sometimes give advice. I also get requests for help to find a foreign husband for themselves, daughter, cousin...thus this thread.  I do this with the full knowledge, and co-operation of my wife.

I was hoping that this thread would take off and the guys would start using it to connect Chinese women with western men but it seems to have gone dormant. Maybe guys are reluctant to post their connection information here in public. Perhaps it would be better if the ladies became members also so they could exchange contact information in private messages.  Come on guys. Help me out here. I need some suggestions on how to make this work else delete this trhead.

[Arnold]

Gerry , you have a good idea here . Believe me , I've try'd this route for my two "Sister's" that I'd like to find a suitable Husband for .. for some three years now . It doesn't work here for some reason ? Maybe , Guy's ( that are single here ) think of them as hand-me-downs or our cast-offs and not reallzing what they could not only be missing .. but safe themselves a lot of trouble/heataches with Fake this and Fake that .
I think most Men are stuborn in finding what they going after their own way and no one else can know better whats good for them . So .. I've given up playing Match-maker .
What this Thread concern's , I'd leave it open if it depends on me . It doesn't hurt anyone and just maybe .. just maybe ? If it work's for just one Person to help find miss right , even taking a year to do it .. it's worth it !

[Vince G]

Speaking for myself I figure I have enough on my plate. Later on if it doesn't work I may put yell out while there?

[maxx]

Robert Snellgrove has his own single dateing site.It is free to register and free to have a look.Arnold and Gerry post your ladies friend info there.Robert needs more members.Sorry I forgot the adress.But I'm sure if you ask Robert he will be more then happy to show you the way.

[Vince G]

Clicker'd click


http://www.xingfulove.com/

[Pineau]

I gave the address to the young lady and will do so in the future.  One feature he could add the site it the ability for members to report abusers.

[Pineau]

Thats great. So Now I dont really think there is a need for this thread. We can refer them to your site. good luck with it.

[Robertt S]

Spent the last 2 days modifying and translating pages on my site, so now the Chinese users should be able to navigate easily on the site now. Modified the join and search pages also adding additional fields with translations. I hope this modification will make using the site fun now instead of confusing. The site address is   http://www.xingfulove.com    I have about 8-9 more languages to add to the modified pages, hopefully I should finish those translations in a timely manner. Happy New Year and Best Wishes to everyone in China!   Robert

P.S.  Just select your preferred language from the drop down language menu at the top of the page! And it is still free !!!!!!!!!