China again, September - October

[ttwjr32]

i will speak to Sisi about this when she reurns Sunday from linyi

[Sylvain D]

Thanks again, Ted.
Sleeping was very very short but well...
Kiki sent me an email, saying that Liyan is still at the hospital with stomach aching.
She will bring her phone, charged, this evening, as she told me.
She also gave me her phone, in case I want to call Liyan.
Actually I am at work and I can not but when I will finish with one customer, I will try to call her, because it is actually 06:13 PM.
I know i should maybe not worry but even if I would stress, I could not be ill like Liyan is. So, I don't really think it is "only" stress.
Many news to come soon.

[ttwjr32]

she is in zhongshan sly? is that were she lives ?

[Sylvain D]

Ted, yes. She lives there, with her friend Kiki.
Actually, she's still at hospital, but she can't go out, because they STILLL don't know what she can have...
Nothing funny... but well. I called her thanks to one of her best friends who let her her phone, and gave me her phone number on my mailbox. So Liyan told me that this morning, a doctor came, and asked her to not eat... This afternoon, the doctor came back again, Liyan asked if she could eat a little, the doctor asked "why??? of course you can.."

Kiki must come later to visit her at the hospital, and another doctor should come to see her, too.
What I don't really understand, they know where is the pain, but they can't do anything "more"... no operation, no way to "open" nor to examine "inside"... should I believe that they are scared to "open"??? I thought that some chinese hospitals at first were quite good, but that one seems to not be very "good"...
but maybe am I "asking" too much to understand.
Liyan also told me she was very very tired, even if she can go anywhere in the hospital alone, she still feels very very bad because her pain...

[ttwjr32]

we will get her Sisi brothers name and hospital to them
maybe you can give me a number for Sis to call her and give her
that information and she could go see her. if he cant help her at
least he will get her to who can and will help her

[Sylvain D]

Many thanks again, Ted.
I will pm you with all the infos needed

UPDATE :/
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The doctor came again to see Liyan, she asked him what's wrong...
He just seemed to reply "I don't know"...
That is really a f....g hospital...
As it is late now there (11:52 pm), Kiki will stay with Liyan all the night, and tomorrow at morning, Liyan will surely go to another hospital, because there is NOTHING SERIOUS in that one... :@
... and up to now, she's still not fine at all...

[Arnold]

This is getting scary Sly , you know we worry all with you and pray for Liyan .

[brett]

Yeah I hope all goes well Sly.

I know a trainee doctor, and he told me that although doctors like to appear super confident, very often they don't have a clue what's wrong with someone :huh:.

As I have found out myself, this long distance relationship thing is very bad when you're waiting for news :@.

[Sylvain D]

Nothing I can do more to help Liyan, except praying and hoping she can recover the best she can. I told her about Ted and Foshan's hospital.
What else to say? "bu hao" were her first words tonight when I called Liyan, asking : "hao ma?"...
she told me that everybody was "waiting" in hospitals, but I told her that waiting 2 weeks was not good at all. She admitted I was right, but was too much tired to say many things. She also told me "je t'aime", and thanked me to care about her. However, even her family doesn't know she's not fine at all... she doesn't want to "scare" them, maybe...I don't know. Kiki talked to me (in chinese), saying that she thanked me too to care... but well..
hours are "passing" so slowly, that I don't really know what I should do more to help Liyan...
I am thinking about going there on next week if I can catch a cheap flight, just to see her a few hours... I am also very sad, even my ex told me "try to smile, please", but I told her about Liyan, she understands that it's not good news... and said me that I just have to wait...
Sorry to confess over here.. I guess it's getting a hard time for Liyan and me actually... and that I may need the brotherhood to understand how much I can care...Many thanks to those who can care too and worry for each of us.
I don't know what else to say... except that I'd enjoy to be right there, right now, beside her, and to take her with me to come in France.. forever.

[mustfocus]

Sylvain,

We all know how you feel.  When you are far away from a loved one, even a few moments is an eternity.  We know you are very concerned about Liyan.  The constant updates you are providing are just a testament to how much you love her.

All we can do right now is hope and pray that she gets better soon.  If you can be with her, even for a short period of time, then do so.  Sometimes having your support will help her get through the tough times.  Show her that you are strong enough to support her and there is nothing she won't do for you.

[Sylvain D]

mustfocus, I guess you're probably right. I am looking for flights to go there next week. but would one week be "good", or too long... that's a "sad" question

[mustfocus]

That's up to you.  There are so many factors here to influence your decision.  If you had more time, I would book for more time first and then pay the change fee if it's reasonable and necessary.

[Sylvain D]

I may have a good flight for next tuesday / next wednesday to go there (but 24h for the flight :s). but i need to know about my visa. as I bought one and used it, I think however it is available for 90 days? If so I think I don't have to pay again to go there, right? Then, that is a bit some money saved.

[Neil]

find out if it's a multi entry or single entry.  mine was a dual entry so I could enter China twice.  it will say on the visa in your passport.

[Arnold]

Sly , if you could be with her .. like you said for just a day or two , if this would not show MOM how much you Love her .. I don't know what will . This really would be the greatest and most loving thing on could do for their Sweetheart . If it still doesn't soften her up after that , I think it's hopelss for you ... then .