China again, September - October

[Sylvain D]

Neil, it's a single entry in fact. so i think I need to pay again. but i'm ok to pay again in "express mode" to have it done ready for tuesday, even afternoon, or wednesday at morning.
Arnold, yes, I totallly agree with your words.
I told my ex about it. she disagrees a bit about it, then saying me "ok, just let me know when you must go to the airport, I can arrange myself with my boss to get you there".
now, it's 07:18 am for Liyan, I will wait a little before calling her and having some news.

[ttwjr32]

Sly,

i got your message and will forward to Sisi tonight when i pick her up
at the airport. i will see her at 9pm so ask Liyan if Sisi calls around 10pm
will that be ok?? i will send you a pm on this.

yes if you could swing it then please go there and be by her side she and
the whole family will see your commitment to her which means more than
anything else to the Chinese. even if you were dirt poor but you had the
love and commitment for the daughter the family would accept you as one
of the family thats what is important to them

[Sylvain D]

Ted, many thx again
I've replied to your PM about Liyan's and she's ok to be called at anytime.
I told her I was looking for flights, she smiled on the phone. but well, how to say to her family i was there with her, as she didn't say her family she was at hospital? her mama would not "really" believe in that... Or maybe would she... I don't know, but well.
Liyan told me she still have pain, but it seems "less" than yesterday... a doctor should come this morning again, but I hate waiting minutes for nothing, or just to hear "i don't know"... Anyway, Liyan told me she promised me to keep me updated about all of it. and is very happy to know I'll go there in a few days. Even for a short period.
Love is all, as sings "Butterfly Ball" (Roger Glover? )

[Arnold]

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To: Sylvain D
Sly , I need to mention .. that Liyan must tell her Parent's ( Mom ) at ones before you get there . Otherwise all this of you coming to be by her side is not going to do any good .. of softening up the Mom at all . I don't know why she would do this and not tell them about her being sick ? This could be the break you were looking for ,  let's not let this chance get away .
Qing agree's with me strongly on this too .

Arnold

[Neil]

Sly, I have a translator contact in Zhongshan.  If you need me to contact her for you, you just let me know.

[Sylvain D]

Arnold, I agree with you. I've just told Liyan about it and she said she will. She feels very very uncomfortable and the doctor said she must wait tomorrow, because today is sunday and that there are only a few doctors.. :@
i gonna ask myself if they really are doctors or just "as" doctors, without any diploma and anything else..

Neil, I think that could be useful.
I must look for flight today, applying a new visa very quick and go there on wednesday, to be there on thursday.

i don't know what else to say, it's very hard to hear Liyan shouting that she's not fine, and even if she's with kiki and kiki's boyfriend, that is not helpful. but thanks to them to be there with Liyan.

NB / Liyan sends me messages via qq mobiles : 12 times since she's at the hospital, she got anti inflamatory drugs... is it really serious??? :@ how can a doctor do ONLY that when he sees she's very very bad? Liyan told Zhongshan hospital is very good hospital...
wow... if so, i don't want to imagine about other hospitals who are not good at all...Once I'll be in Gz, I need to find a bus or a taxi to go to Zhongshan. but Liyan said me quickly that taxis don't know for most of them how to go to zhongshan...
However, I must go there ASAP and she promised me to call her parents. she told me her hand is hurting too because of injections...
when I hear about 12 injections, I can't imagine how difficult it must be for Liyan...
she always says me "i love you, i love you"

here are the checks she did :
"a lot of checks, blood, urine, B super-, X-ray, stomach."
and the doctors say they will give her results ONCE she'll go out of the hospital, they can't now....!!!!

[ttwjr32]

sly,

Sisi is in contact with Liyan. she just got off the phone and gave her all the contact ifo for her brother
so she needs to call him. its his day off and even Sisi cant get a hold of him but she will call him when she gats to GZ tonight
she said liyan went home

[Sylvain D]

Ted, thx for the news.
So, Sisi said you Liyan "went" home? Or that she was going home?
I'm just asking because I got Liyan less than 20 mins ago, and she still was at hospital. But I guess the hospital is not far away from Kiki's home, maybe...
now, I can not call Liyan, or in fact, I tried but no reply....
if she is really out of the hospital, then she must have the checks with her.

[ttwjr32]

yes she was going home but i guess maybe kikis home

[Sylvain D]

i guess too because gz is 2 hours from the hospital, and as her parents live in Gz...
i tried to call back Liyan, no news. I will try later, maybe (and surely) is she too much tired.. I just hope she got her checks results and that there is nothing that could "frighten" Liyan inside :s

[ttwjr32]

she needs to see Sisi brother for a good check up

[Sylvain D]

ok, i've called her again and finally got her.
Another doctor is waiting Liyan because she is still at hospital and she is getting another check.
Next, she promised me to call me and to call Sisi's brother (she said at night?)
I also think that yes, she really needs to see Sisi's brother for a good check up, so that man can better "understand" what's wrong.

[ttwjr32]

i agree tell her to call him in the morning and set up a time to
have her go to his hospital so he can check her good  
enough of these games with the other doctors

[Sylvain D]

I will tell Liyan again about him, so that she maybe could be able to go there. but I don't know if Kiki and her boyfriend could take her to Foshan tomorrow. I'll talk about it with Liyan anyway

[Sylvain D]

Little update :
It is now 10:30 pm in China and Liyan called Sisi's brother. he told her that if the checkup was good, then it should be "rust"? Or something related to that ?
Well.
Liyan told me that she begins to feel better but stays anyway at the hospital tonight with Kiki.
Tomorrow, Liyan's sister will come, and I am trying to see if I can be there in 4 days...
I just need to ask an express visa (48h), then, if giving the paper for tomorrow at morning, it should be ok for wednesday... but will i be able to have the visa and the flight on the same day??? maybe the best would be to catch the flight the next day... because if i can't have my visa for wednesday, that will not be good :s
and no way to call the office now because it's closed.

anyway...
Liyan told me that as I'll go there, she'd be happy to "introduce" me to Kiki, to her sister, and maybe to her parents.
I don't know if Liyan's mama will be happy that I'm going to see Liyan, but well... i hope she'll be able to see it and then, to notice it.
As I said before, Liyan told her parents I was coming to see her again, so... maybe that could be a good thing, and maybe could her mama be "soften"? with me?
I don't know...

So I'm still looking for flights and in a few minutes, that should be ok for it. I also need to book a hotel in zhongshan, even for one night, because to get my visa, I need a paper whichs says where I can sleep/be, even one night.